10 Signs She Is Controlling Your Life
One of the best parts about being in a relationship is feeling like you have a partner who supports your life, without controlling it. You are your own person and that sense of identity should only be strengthened when you are with the person that you love. Unfortunately, many individuals are stuck in unhealthy relationships. One of the most dangerous relationship moves is to remain with someone that you know is controlling of your life.
The more she controls your life, the more you are going to start to feel like you have lost your own sense of independence and may quickly forget about the things that you were once passionate about. This is an extra depressing thought when you consider that what your partner is supposed to love the most about you is the things that you are passionate about.
Unhealthy and controlling relationships are also incredibly difficult ones to end. If your partner is controlling every element of your life to the point that you cannot function without them, you may end your relationship and quickly find yourself without any support. Many people backslide into their old relationship because of this, but remember that you owe it to yourself to be healthy and happy.
There are definite signs that you are in a relationship that is controlling, and unfortunately, sometimes you need to read about them to really get the gravity of the situation. Your partner loves you, but that doesn’t make their controlling behavior acceptable. One question you should always be asking yourself is if your partner loves you, and if your answer is that she loves controlling you, then hopefully you know where the exit is. Here are the ten definite signs that she is starting to control and dominate your life.
10. She Is All Over Your Phone
It is one thing to have your partner look at your phone, especially when you ask her to see who just texted you. It becomes incredibly controlling if your partner is all over your phone and going through all your texts and emails. You have the right to your own privacy and you also have the right to be in a relationship in which you feel she trusts you. The more she questions your behavior, the less freedom you may feel, and that’s a quick recipe to make sure she starts to control other areas of your life.
