You’re not a disgraceful mess when drunk
I’d say don’t get drunk at all, but of course, this is an attempt at futility.
However, a woman’s trust in you will be heightened if, somehow, you relatively act sensibly when drunk. Simply because the things people say when they are drunk are actually their real tendencies which were subdued during their sober periods.
You act the same around everyone
Your accent does not suddenly change when you are somewhere, you comport yourself the same way every time, everywhere.
You’re trusting
If after all these things you are doing to earn her trust, you refuse to trust her, then you should maybe stop wasting your time because your refusal to trust her will most likely undo all the fine work you have done.
