11. Fantasies about someone
If during sex you think about someone else but your partner, probably you should consider the possibility of changing this person.
However, there is nothing bad in closing your eyes and imagining a sex-symbol or even someone you know who excites you in some degree.
This doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner. This means only that you are a completely normal person who would like to have sex with someone who seems sexual for you.
12. Peculiarities of your body
Each of us has something he or she would like to change in own body and appearance: to lose weight or, vice versa, to gain it, to change the form of the nose or chin, make legs longer and hips – smaller.
But there is one detail: a person you have sex with has the same concerns about appearance as you do. And at the same time you may even not know what he worries about so strongly.
That’s why you need to perceive your body as given and stop being ashamed of it.
hmmmmmm