11. I have never cheated on my husband. Not with Don Jazzy, Dr Sid, 2face Idibia or anybody. I have never cheated on my husband, and Tunji knows this. He knows that in his heart. (She breaks down in tears) Sometimes in the studio, one of the things that Don Jazzy and some of my other label mates say is that I am really good with interviews, with being diplomatic and knowing how to carry myself with difficult situations. This hurts. I have seen comments of what people are saying about me. It is not true.

12. I know that for every human being when your father’s ways are not straight, it will bother you. Since I sacked him from my management, he has been struggling financially. He was stealing from me, so I had to save my marriage and separate business from family. TJ wants to keep up with the Joneses, he wants to live a life that is not true. He went to buy a car, a Mercedes that he knew that he didn’t have the money for it. The person kept up calling that he wants the balance. I ended up paying the balance of over 3M. When it was time to pay, I put the money in his account, so they don’t know I was the person paying for it. He also bought a Rolex, and didn’t pay the balance. They threaten to go to the press, and to protect my name, I will have to pay for it. He goes to clubs and leaves the tabs for me, and I have to pay for him. He is putting us in debt.

13. What set off all off this was that he went to borrow 45 million Naira from someone and he lost it. I just found out that EFCC was investigating a case against him, and my brother called me from London and confirmed it that TJ is in deep trouble, and that some people might hurt him, that I should be careful. In my frantic mode to try and suppress this situation I went to one of my big bros who can help. A week ago I told TJ that we were running out of Jamil’s food, but he didn’t do nothing. He complains, but cuts his hair twice a week. I have been searching for N45M so that they don’t kill him, so that they EFCC does not carry him. What kind of man does that, and says I am the one taking away his manhood.

14. I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my house in 1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos). I didn’t even know he takes cocaine. I walked into the kitchen, and I saw him taking cocaine, so I screamed, and asked if that is cocaine. HE started screaming that ‘What am I doing down here, where is the cocaine?’ How can someone without money take cocaine? I called his parents and complained that I can deal with weed, but cocaine, no. So I am dealing with his alcohol problem, you come home late, infidelity, coaciane, bad debt, jealousy over my success.

15. Before marriage, Idin’t know of his third child in Nigeria. A lot of people warned me about him, but I am going to say I made a mistake. At the beginning everyone says you can’t leave the marriage because our culture frowns on it. I made a mistake, do I have to wait ten years, 15 years? If I am not happy. And I was scared that if I ever find somebody else to marry me? That’s the msiconceptions of our society. I don’t care if I ever get married again. I care about being happy for Jamil, I care about not walking on eggshells. I do want a man that works, that will help me with my financial burden. He doesn’t have to be a millionaire or billionaire, but at least someone that helps, and won’t put me in more debt.

16. Everyday all I hear from TJ is that ‘I created you, I took you from nothing, look at you now.

17. The marriage is finally over, it’s been over for a while, and I have covered up for a while. What happened was God-sent, and he made it easier for me to walk away with what he did on social media. He got so many people angrier, he pulled so many innocent people into this. Even his family. He made it easy for me to finally up and walk away.

18. I will never stop him from seeing Jamil, never. Even today, Jamil is still saying ‘dadada’, and I was saying it with him as well, that’s his first word. I want to bring him up to be a good man.

19. Even till now I don’t wish anything bad on him. As we are doing this interview, I am worried that if he sees it, it might trigger him to do something bad. I don’t want my son to grow up and know, God forbid, that his father commited suicide. Tonight, I am still gonna pray for him.

20. He was getting help at one point when the whole cocaine thing came out. This has been happening for a long time. We get him helpo and he goes to see a doctor or a pastor, or a counsellor and he uses his own hands to ruin things again. If I didn’t care about him, I wouldn’t be covering up for a lot of things. I wouldn’t be searching for help for him. Even now I am still searching for a way to help him out of his debt, so that if he is out of this,

21. If there is anything that maybe I overlooked, or didn’t love him enough, or made him less of a man, then I am sorry. I am absolutely sorry…Tunji I am sorry. But you know I tried everything, you know I love you so much, and I am sorry, I never wanted to divorce, and I never wanted it to get to this. I want you to get better…and I would always pray for you.

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36 COMMENTS

  4. Let’s hear wat tee have to say too coz I think he as’nt committed suicide yet e must say something

  7. Nigeria is a drama country. God will take control. Please God settle this matter. I personally don’t wish then divorce

  8. The worst thing about any marriage is a Woman being the Bread Winner of the Family… All I see here is pride and Ego! #MyCent

    • bros, even if na pride at least Teebills should know his responsibilities and tackle d problems… if i bwife too i go complain kwa

  10. I knew there are two sides to this story.
    I don’t listen to her song n am not a feminist but I must submit that some of the things tiwa said was true n from wat I read from the husband he doesn’t sound matured at heart
    Is good to marry but pray n watch b4 u say I do.
    Tiwa I would advise you don’t talk more no matter the urge to say more, cos u av over talked already . U don’t need to convince anyone that you are a saint . So be happy n live ur life . Above all, give ur life genuinely to Jesus Christ n He will lead u through

  12. If you won marry celebrity, you go make up ur mind and trust d person be4 u enter in marriage, ,,tiwisavage husband know say d girl na celebrity be4 e marry her y e won end d girl career, ,,later now dem go say d celebrity’s no won marry na ppl like dis guy dey cause am

  14. Both of them are not serious and need counseling especially tiwa there is no perfect man and u should no him before jumping into the marriage . Someone U have not seen u already allow interview with the press on some rubbish your husband posted just 3days back (which we are not even sure if he was the one writing them).babe Abeg calm down .i smell pride here jare

    • My dear don’t blame tiwa, who would be with and man that takes drugs or a man that is jealous of his wife success??? Pls think before u talk after all the man started it first by calling her a cheat! She is just defending herself if not Nigerians will take it to another level…. Mtchewww

    • How the guy acted is a clear sign of an addict. He just suffered a major breakdown which indicate she has been going thru a lot secretly

  16. Now now now 21 things don fall out na wa ooo niger. Na so we go do frustrate d woman enter were she no suppose dey. Just leave dem alone media people ah.

  19. This matter need to be settled amicably sha o o abeg Naija in a big mess now many things to talk about , marriage is for better for worst so bear the pain my dear with God all things are possible seek the face of him for happy home

  21. Tee bills may be right u knw, only God knows. For I pray for men to work to there best never to let there wife be the bread winner, in the bible say so.

  22. he only married you because of your fame & money. let him go hustle like other men do. he should be the man hes surpose to be.he did not mean to commit surcide ,if he meant it, he would have taken sniper as tea 5am.

  24. Tiwa, i have a man that never disappoint, whenever you call his line, he’s always available to take your call and does not depend on your fame and can’t cheat on you. His name is JESUS CHRIST. The question is have you made peace with him today? You need him now and ever. Make peace with him invite him into your life as Lord and saviour then ask him on the way forward on this current situation of your home and he will direct you. Do that today, you will not regret it.

    • God bless you Micheal. This is the best comment so far and the best advice. Tiwa, pls allow Jesus to decide for you by submitting totally to Him.

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