Conversational skills
If you meet a lady, lets say you go on a date and you start off with conversations like “oh, I’m the director of XYZ company”, “I live in the high brow part of the state ”, “I own ten cars” and you go on and on.
Except it’s a gold digger you’re talking to, who would gladly pay attention since she doesn’t have anything to offer in the first place and is also thinking of ways to suck you dry with the ‘All about myself information’ you are feeding her.
But if this conversation is being listened to by a potential girlfriend then you’ll bore the life out of her and then she perceives you as a selfish person.
So, if you want to know how to get a girlfriend with conversations, do not make it about yourself. Women like attention and are easily attracted to men who are interested in them. If you genuinely want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive.