– Here is a confession from a man who has done everything to please his wife but the wife has repaid him with cheating
Normally, you don’t see men posting confessions online about their love life.
It’s believed as a man you should have this iron heart and should rather die silently your problems than opening up.
Confessing, especially publicly, is never an option.
However, a man seemed to be in a devastating position because his wife has been stressing him.
He posted this confession online seeking for help, a sign that things are really thick in his home.
I’m tired of my wife. We’ve been married for 7 years.
In the 7 years, she has slept with two of her ex-boyfriends. I was okay after the whole thinking maybe I’ll get to forget, but I only became possessive and it kept eating me slowly inside. Now I’m a bitter angry man.
All I ever did was to love her and show her how hard I work to give her a better life, but she thanked me by choosing to sleep with her ex and both of them she didn’t use protection.
She says they refused to wear condoms. I feel nothing but anger towards her. I feel I should just leave her and find myself another.
I feel I should just leave her and find myself another woman and start another life. She is refusing to come with me to have HIV tests done. So tell me…How do I continue to live with such a woman?
What are your thoughts? Should he just start afresh?
sex strike,explain to her family and if no solution divorce her even d bible supports it on a ground of adultery
Old testament supports it. Jesus in the new testament doesn’t
you think you know the bible more than me! matthew chapter 5 vs 31 states; it was also said, anyone who divorces his wife must give her a written notice of divorce(done by muslims which is wrong) Jesus said if a man divorces his wife, for any cause other than her UNFAITH-FULNESS,only then he is guilty
How many of them practice what they have in the old testament?, they can’t abide by the rules of old testament that’s why they migrated to new testament
I really don’t get your point @Bello and there’s nothing like migration,Jesus only came to perfect the laws of the old testament to make it a bit fair!
don’t divorce her used condom for her always
So they shouldnt have there own children? Funny thou
You still call her your wife. Send her packing this moment
Hmmm,men be careful of what you called wife,how can you married and still be cheating what do you have to tell the younger ones,what about your children?? That is an history…….
Called her talk to her as your wife tell her your feeling and wet for her action and decision, if there is no change my dear send her to were she desire to be,for peace to rain
I find it difficult to interfere in a marriage issues if i here a complain from only one side because i believed just as u laid your complained to us she will also have are own complained too but regardless of that i will only advice u to go and do your own HIV test firstly to clear your doubt then interference of elders is necessary
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Run run run
Divorce her
Divorce d devil
Quoting the complainant according to his written statement “I feel I should just leave her and find myself another WOMAN” hmmmm Oga why are you in a haste to quit your union of 7yrs,I smell a dead rat in his story.
I agree with u abubakar
Use protection when having an affair with her
Funny thou
Wait, when she is asleep, you remove her blood for the test… But wait ooo, you men sef, the girl wey been de faithful to you you dump am go marry this one..u never chii chumchin
Do you think HIV test in Nigeria is like blood group testing you can do with a drop of blood?
Oga. If you like your self make you move oo. No room for lapses oo?
why wasting time
Go for ur own hiv test, nd if negative….. Forget her!
She’s refusing to take HIV test? worry not try to catch the man who’s cheating with her then force him to take HIV test
Divorce her simple……
Stop touching her
Stop making love wit her
W-A-L-K. She will waste you and those who really love you will miss you.
Pray
Are done with your? I mean with your HIV test?
Conduct your own test then reserve sex with her for while if you are negative after like a month trick her to some kind of clinical test in which her blood will be tested, but before all these how did you come across knowing she cheats on you don’t ride on suspicions to battered your marriage
Then u av to take a HIV test
Be wise
Protect yr self, bt b4 dt, go do some test as well, so u will be sure dt u re safe
A wife is not a mother. Let her go
Protect your self,or avoid sleeping with her ,d choice is urs
Go and Test yourself if your are Negative lucky you
Take divorce test.
U don’t know what to do. Six feet have no window no door. My regret is that slave trade has been abolished. You would have collected your money sharp sharp.
Nnem you get talk for mouth
Bros my grandmother told me that ” Nwanyi kpara agwa di otua; eree ya na Ohu.”
An adulterous woman shld either kill herself or d husband.Pls don’t keep quiet over dis deadly disease of ur so=cal wife. l wl advice 2 first go 4 ur own test, den let d elders in ur family interfere nd if she failed 2 change, abeg free her.
Go and run your own, then use your own to know her status
Hmmmmmmn a u serious
Divorce her
Send her away pls
Run for your dear life….. It’s that simple
Balance d equation. Start cheating too. Dundi
Wife cheating and has been justified, then what do expect us to say? Put assunder in your marriage? You are a private fool!
U be MUMU…..mumu with certificate
Pray to GOD.
Your confession is one sided. In the sense that there is no justification for her to cheat on you, but could there be anything her ex her giving her that you are not giving her?
As a counsellor, I realise most women can’t erase the past experience of their ex from their head especially when the husband can’t service her like her ex will do.
While I may tell my brother to get such woman out of his house, if you willing to forgive her, ask her some deep questions like what is she getting from the other parties that you are not giving her.