The man shared his story showing just how he has been caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.

Below is what he wrote:

I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house.

Sometime ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life.

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever.

But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore.

I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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948 COMMENTS

  34. Love is more about what you do than how you feel. Trust me, if you keep caring for her, being patient with her, listening to her, being there for her, etc the feeling part of love will be reignited. Try it and see!

  43. The thunder that will fire u will come from her village if u don’t return her kidney……u were never in love with her cos if u do u will worship her cos she gave u life

  60. U deserved to be flogged mercilessly. U actually hav a psychological problem, thats y u lost your senses u should have used to reason like a normal human being. Don’t provoke people here ooo

  87. na lie, which girl give’am en kidney, na big lie, doctors no deh comot young girl own, na only, like mama dem, na wa o, una just dey cap, anyway all join, cari mata go front, matayas pin tight

  100. Do you know that this covenant in the highest order, it simply show that you didn’t value from the beginning, but let me remind you if you end up hurting her you won’t last long and you will end up in agony till you die, there is no sacrifice that is bigger than this

  110. I’m speechless right now.. I don’t really know what to tell u.. U know what? tell her that u no longer feel anything for her..a broken relationship is better than a broken home…but if she ask u to return her kidney fine u know dat she gave it to u bcox u both are dating then u return it to her .. love doesn’t die what u felt for her was lust not love #smh

  122. If you cant love her after willing to die for U, then please free her,am sure there is an angle out there like her who will be willing to die for her,U do not deserve her anyway….. mind you U will never find anyone like her….. gud luck.

  124. D love must not die bcos part of her is already inside of u…go and look 4 d love and bring it back,d relationship must continue bcos this has got nothing to do with your feelings,is nw an obligation.

  143. Put yourself in her shoes then answer the question yourself… No need to return the kidney because she can’t afford to take another risk while trying to collect her kidney back, just kill yourself.

  163. Please kindly return the kidney since you don’t love her, and then go and buy your own then you will no how much it costs, maybe that won way dae catch you for body go give you , if na me I go sue you and also collect my kidney, rubbish

  192. It’s as simple as that return back her kidney, no argument, do u know how much kidneys r worth in Malaysia? Mister man u better return the kidney unless she’ll just put otapiapia inside ur food one day and you’ll end up loosing both ur life.

  201. What à wicked world she Loved you cared for you to the stage of even risking her own life just to save your life #where_is_love guys why are we So wicked we dont even know when we miss true love because of our selfishness imagine if this girl dont save your life by donating one of her kidney to you by now your family would have Forgoten about you????your are heartless….God please save our girls from fake guys who prétend to love them please sir kindly return her kidney and die So she wount loss you and her kidney at once

  210. The thunder that will fire u still doing apprenticeship in the abyss of thunder fire and lightening with Lucifer as its Master.
    Anyways no sweats, she self no love u again, return her kidney to her and move on to another girl u love.

  273. U people dnt understand he is trying to say, if person no love u no matter wetin u do dat person no go love u, he just speaks his mind, anyway make de girl forget about him becos noting gud will come out of it na God pay her back

  286. U r useless,i no blame u sha,if to say u dn die like fowl u no dey talk all ds rubbish,i blame d girl.na all ds useless boys dey mk girls no dey love Again.if she swear for u heaven go stamp em hell go confirm em fool

  307. Haba! Did d gal told u she dnt wnt d kidney? U hav ntin to do jst remv d kidney and submit it wit respect to the owner im sure d gal’s pain is nt dat u dnt love her o bt her kidney z misn

  309. Agege God’ swill ,you have said it all , for me I don’t have anything to tell him. For dose that are calling him fool,his not a fool,his name is Solomon the wisest man,monkey dey work barbo dey chop let him try and see ,may your soul rest in peace in Jesus name we pray Amen.

  313. hmmmmmmmmm u are not serious looking 4 comments.. 4 this present government she go give her kidney…. girl friend no be even wife …….i remove cap 4 her oooooooo u na no go kill me….me lol see face….

  317. After you have play her local league tired and entered her London game finish, you are not interested again, remember that kidney donated to you will judge you and speak for her.

  324. Guy u are d greatest fool i av ever seen in my life d kidney u av nw is nt urs so my frnd return it back to d owner den go met ur new luv to give u hers u are such an ungrateful idiot

  328. Simply return back her kidney please, nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing. When you find that which you are looking for don’t run ooooh, It’s it ironic! we love those who hurt us and hurt those who love us.

  342. Hmmm tire for some girlsooooo ,u dey give out ur kidney unto watin ?friendship levels .when he is not ur hubby .Oya e don shelle .Tomorrow the part two go come out titled: my boyfriend jilted me after donating my kidney to him .

  372. Did you promise her anything before the kidney issue ? Did you ever love her or promise her love before she gave you her kidney ?
    If all these questions are in affirmative sorry you can’t pull back now. It is too late in the day to step back.

  379. Sme ladies re brave ooo. Even my husband won’t risk my life to give my kidney to ND talk of boyfrnd who can live u ND not think twice. U must love not only wit ur heart bt wit ur brain as well. Love ur own body 1st b4 lovn a man. No man on earth is worth ur kidney.

  389. Just delete love out of your life & face reality.you don’t have such life line anymore to choose who to love.it has bypass you so forget it & happily go back to the poor girl dat saved your life

  425. Return d kidney back to her simple why will she give her God giving kidney to a man dat she didn’t know if he will marry you na wa ooooooo return it and go to your new babe collect her own dat is if d kidney is working

  435. U can break up with her simple. y are u worrying yourself. u are not d first person to do so and u won’t b last. wat abt girls dat broke some guy hrt after sponsoring them from secordary to university.

  449. If you leave her without returning her kidney back to her that means you’re still with her…so please Mr onye iberibe kindly return her kidney back to her and go with your useless love…. If you can’t value her kidney, you won’t equally value her love

  457. To be honest is not a must both of you will end up together. It will hurt her more if you don’t love her anymore and still with than leaving her. She might be your life saver. Just explain to her calmly. Don’t disrespect her or peharps try and do things you guys did at the start of the relationship. If it doesn’t work move on respectfully but know that you are indebted to her. God will bless her more than your appreciation anyways. Nawa oh but you self

  462. Thank God you said she donated her kidney to save your life. Now that you’re saved, you don’t love her anymore. Love is not by force but in your own case you must love her whether you like it or not…..or simply return the kidney. Period.

  468. U dt now b4, and u’ve knw that the girl who donate the kidney LOVE u so much even u avoid her, if she did nt donate it then who else want too donate, So guy be grateful too her, more apperication, more thinkful, and i also think u are most #LUCKEST guy in the whole world.

  472. Stupid man. Someone gave you part of her body and you don’t love her anymore. You didn’t count yourself lucky to have such a woman that loves you that much to risk her own life and donate kidney to save you.

  475. When dog is about to die, the dog doesn’t want to hear the smear of a shit again. Please and please bring back her kidney from your sambisa stomach and give it to her full stop.

  477. u are nolonger in love wt ha when u now bear half of ha life in u,dat means u were never in love wt ha guy u are wickedoo,just return ha kindney go nd die cause u are nt worth it,

  524. I was only here to read comments,but I don vex wella! If u no return her kidney the thunder wey go fire u go dey like doctors prescription four for morning,four for afternoon, and four in the night for one month.

  530. This is real STORY FOR THE gods,my dear just jejely return her kidney and her love back to her or else u want both her ancestors and great great ancestors to wage war against u because if they do u will wish u don’t have any kidney at all talk less of staying alive.

  590. Dey girl you are in love with now, don’t she has a kidney, just return the life she gave you back to her and go for dey one you love. They is nothing there na, okay. And mean why, RIP in advance idiot

  596. God ‘ll definitely judge you if you do that to that kind-heart that save you….minus God don’t you know she is the reason while you are there talking that rubbish….you better turn back the hand of the clock and start LOVING HER where you stopped

  609. Talk to your self and have a Change of heart, that girl is your reason to be speaking now, if you are not alive you can’t find another woman somewhere turning your head that makes you to feel you don’t love the one who gave you life to express your self again

  612. I seriously think he should tell her and they should sit down and discuss it,with their age they should be able to digest issues like this!
    Marriage is a lifetime thing,All this ladies running mouths,please will you happily marry someone that does not love? Abeg receive sense!

    Am not saying the guy is right,but since he doesn’t love her,why marry her?

  623. U should get ready to be donated for rituals. What a silly talk. U should hv tot of it before dis time. U would hv refused her to donate her kidney to u since d love u hv for her won’t last. Pls!!! kindly give it back to the owner.

  633. kai guy wetin you won make we do for,huh?clap or abi to dance..check if na your own sister do am for anoda guy,i no say you go shoot d guy…abeg anywia wei you keep d luv go bring am cum ooooo cos d kin knock wei d wait for you d do press up.

  654. Uc joy,kudos to ur sense of reasoning. really,they don’t necessarily have to end up together o. The lady might just be his life saver like joy said..& that’s how God works in unquestionably mysterious ways. But if in alk hine sty he’s no longer in love with her,he should just be polite about talking it out with her of course with prayers,she’ll understand.. but it would be an aweful experience for the poor lady o…can’t imagine what the girl would be going through now.i no even know wetin I go do if i were in her shoes.

  674. She gave you one kidney, and now she has one left.. You now want to go for a girl with two kidneys abi? Ok Na , make I see who you wan leave her for. #idiot … You better give her her kidney back and die with zero kidney ..monkey

  682. In ds century, some gals still dey donate kidney 4 boyfrnd not husband. What is d assurance that i will end up with him in d future after donating my kidney? A very big sacrifice just bcos of love and nothing is gonna come out of it, if u dump her at last u won’t last its not a curse it’s karma!!!! Y didn’t u tell her then when she ws abt to donate her kidney that thr is no love in ur hrt 4 her? U decided to let her save ur soul b4 u release d bombshell cos i know u never loved her 4rm d beginning. (Self act leads to poor outcome) am out of here mehn!!!!!

  692. The thunder wey go fire dey do fourty days and nights fasting. By the time it’s through with the fast it will be well sophisticated to strike whatever remains of you to hell fire… Rubbish

  697. mr man is dis a question, if u ask me go nd hang urself,if u think i would say u should return d kindey,no dear i bet d kindey wil soak ur blood if u have any,d thunder dat wil fire is doing makeup nd wearing cloth, jerk.

  703. Hmmm bro its soo simple paa,jus approach her and let her noe hw u are feeling,nor dat plz plz and plz again return her kidney bak yo her,coz is not easily for person to do dat.all bee simple way kuraaa…..:-):-)

  710. Guy please u do not have to tell us about you not loving her anymore, when you wanted the kidney from her u didn’t announce it to the world ooo…….. After you have let her donate her kidney to you that’s when you realize you no longer love her abi……. God go punish you goat pikin. if didn’t return that kidney to her shapaly shapaly ehnn the thunder that will fire you is very close to you

  727. Sometimes I keep on asking myself this question… Why is it that men who knows what love is all about don’t find the right women and women who is ready to do anything for love don’t find the real men… Bro if she can go that far for you want else d’u want in a woman?

  735. Kill your self b****… You’re definitely an ingrate. You ain’t worth living. She deserves your love forever. If you can’t give that to her… Then you belong 6ft below earth.

  737. The girl in question was obviously too blind to see right from the beginning that you did not love her. The truth is that u only played on her intelligence. You pretended to love her simply because of what you wanted to get from her. My advice to you sha is that you had better start loving her now, because if you try playing that trick on her, believe it or not, God will surprise you.

  757. Caʀɛʄʊʟʟʏ ռ ʝɛʝɛʟʏ ʀɛtʊʀռ ɦɛʀ ҡɨɖռɛʏ ɖɛռ ʊ ċaռ ɖʊʍք ɦɛʀ ռ asҡ ʄօʀ ʊʀ ռɛա ʟʊʋs ҡɨɖռɛʏ աɛɖa sɦɛ ɢօ ɢʀɛɛ ɢɨʋ ʊ ɨɖɨօt, ɨռʄaċt ʄaċɛɮօօҡ sɦaʀɛ ʍʏ sʟaք tօ ɖat ɢʊʏ ʄօʀ ʍɛ

  759. Stay there and manage, grow back the love, she has shown you the ultimate love, you deserve no such sacrifice, you owe her that atleast,shut your ungrateful mouth and ask God to forgive you.

  770. Dɨs stʊʄʄ ɨs stɨʟʟ aռռօʏɨռɢ ʍɛ. Iʄ ɨt աɛa ʍʏ sɨs ɢʊʏ ռa ʋօʍɨt ʊ ɢօ ʊsɛ ʀɛtʊʀռ ɖ ҡɨɖռɛʏ, ɨ աɨʟʟ sօ ɮɛat ʊ tɨʟʟ ʊʀ ɨռ ċօʍa. U ɢօ ʝst աaҡɛ ʊք օռɛ ċօօʟ ʍօʀռɨռɢ ċɦaռɢɛ ʊʀ ċaʀɛʟɛss ɦʀt saʏ ʊ ռօ ʟʊʋ ɦɛʀ aɢaɨռ,as ɨʄ ռօ ɮɛ sɦɛ ɢɨʋ ʊ ɖ ʀɨɢɦt tօ ʟɨʋɛ…..

  771. My guy no too much talk …..even in this recession you still can afford #200….just go to the movie store and buy this Nigerian film “sweet potato”….starring (Nkem Owoh alias “osuofia” and Mercy Johnson)…. This your story is the same thing with the movie’s story….. You will see how Mercy Johnson died after Osuofia donated his kidney to her as her lover and he died in the process….. Immediately she (mercy Johnson) married another man without regarding osuofia’s sacrifice…… She never enjoyed her marriage and unfortunately she died…….so this movie is same to your story ….a word is enough for the wise……..you must love that girl because she has sacrificed her life for you…..but if you said you don’t love her anymore …..simply return her kidney back to her……..finish …….

  780. U ma seef…. Dnt u kkw datt u dnt live wit sumone b4 getting married. “Marriage is gud wwen d bed iis undefiled.Uve slept wit her of course. Weda u leave or u no leave her, she has a part of u nd u hav a part of her. The bad tin?? U dnt knw wat bad tin nd hw dangerous d tin uve gotten frm her is. Until iit strts manifesting. Then u go around for prayers

  789. Smart Guy!
    Idiot……… u have another chance to make that woman…. who give u another chance to live.. d happiness one alive…
    U dey form love… love her. Jor…. fool

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