Some Nigerian netizens are currently having a heated debate online after a video of a Lagos-based Pastor, Kingsley Okonkwo, admonishing men against sex before marriage, surfaced online.
In the video, the pastor who recently had a spat with singer, Simi over his stance on women and marriage, said men should stay off premarital sex as it ends up destroying their destinies.
”Dear single man, please don’t fall for the trick that men can live anyhow, it is women that should keep themselves. Sexual immorality destroys destiny. All the grace of God in your life that you should have been using to gain mileage and make progress, you are emptying it on top of a woman. Sexual Immorality will reduce a man to a piece of Bread, it is taking the glory over your life. You will never become what you are meant to be if you have no self control. You think you are the one using women? You say to I have slept with many girls. If only God can open your eyes to see how you are ”uselessing” your destiny There is life flowing from you whenever you are sleeping with somebody you are not married to. It drains you, deadens the sensitivity of your spirit. Adultery stays in family except it is uprooted. You are just passing problems to your children” the pastor said
As some Nigerians are feeling rather indifferent about the message, some others support the pastor’s message and some others are of the opinion that sex doesn’t affect destinies.
Watch the video and see some reactions,
Well for me I think the man of God is saying the real thing.. Sex is a spiritual thing it goes beyond what the physical eye can see, so for you to understand this theory of his, you have to key into the metaphysical world.
For me, I’m deep down into this shit and to come out of it, is not an easy task but God will help us.
Starting from creation, the fall of man began because of a woman. Don’t compare all these Christian Brothers who are rich in the spirit with these artists who their money is not from God.Stay away from women. if you don’t want to be like Nebuchadnezzar, stay away from jezebel.
What about those pastors that fuck their members? All the girls here are all supporting you as if they are still virgins simply because they are like you- People who fuck and hide. That is what women are. Tell that to your fellow pastors. Chris Brown fuck Rihanna tire, the kardasians like Kim and kylie Jenner and other sisters can feed Nigeria. Jenner has a daughter and yet not married. Did the baby fall from the sky? Genevieve nnaji has a daughter and she is rich. Oga, if you have nothing to tell us, why not pray to God to fix this country that is decaying
that’s why it’s good to use condom. thus d destiny isn’t going to the woman. the condom bounces it back to the man
Pastor u are right because a man who disciplined himself over woman have solve half of his problem,here on earth!!