US-based Nigerian businessman, Francis Van-Lare, has recounted what he went through in his previous marriage.
Francis Van-Lare, the estranged husband of relationship expert, Blessing Amara Nwosu detailed his experience in a lengthy Facebook post while advising people against taking advice from people when choosing a life partner.
According to him, he was in love with a young single law undergraduate but everyone advised him to marry a single mother in her 40s because a younger woman may not be the best choice.
He claimed the advisers told him an older single mother and her children will be there for him in old age after he helps her raise her kids.
He added that the law undergraduate who he was in love with was also advised to marry a younger man she can grow old with.
He said that he took the advice of people and married a single mother with four children.
Sadly, only two years the marriage hit the rock bottom.
He explained that problems started immediately after the wedding when his new wife went against their agreement and began spreading news of their marriage online, despite promising not to until a few issues had been resolved.
He said that two years after their wedding, the single mother and her children ended up beating him up to “near death”.
The young woman who was advised to marry a younger man also married after graduating from law school but her marriage ended in divorce.
Although he did not mention the name of his ex-wife, the time frame he gave in his story correlates with the period he married and divorced relationship expert, Amara Blessing Nwosu.
Francis and Amara got married in 2014 and separated in 2017, after being married for two years and some months.
Amara’s marriage to Francis was her second as she was previously married at 17, and the marriage produced four children—two boys and two girls.
Meanwhile, Francis Van-Lare has also been married five times and they all ended in divorce.
Read his full post below,