Nigerian writer, Solomon Buchi has taken to social media to address men who believe they are saving a woman and taking away her shame by marrying her.
In a post shared via Twitter, Solomon informed such men that they are not doing a woman any favour by marrying her and they should quit being full of themselves.
He also tackled men who believe that if they are rejected by a woman, she will suffer and live to regret abandoning them.
According to him, those men are completely delusional and should limit their viewing of Nollywood movies because they are not the only good guys out there.
The self-acclaimed life coach tweeted,
“Dear men,
When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her. You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there. You’re not doing her a favour. Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it. You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe. Reduce watching Nollywood too.”
See his tweet below,
Dear men,
When you're asking a woman to marry you, you're not saving her. You're not taking away her shame; there's no shame there. You're not doing her a favour. Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither…
— Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) June 29, 2023
