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When I was young I told myself that @ a certain age I will be one man babe….along d line I went into setting my goals (relationship wise), I’ve dated guys who were Christians and just two Muslims.

The Christian guys I have dated so far, don’t do the things that should be done in a relationship, it is either one is lazy, rude, had nonchalant attitude,etc my relationship does last long,so have been searching for the right one.

Last 2-3years I dated another Christian guy all in the name of “religion” the guy is ohk but it seems to me that I was d one driving d relationship, d guy can’t do anything without involving me, I am always the one trying to put him in shape, if am nt around him he looses force, you know, am always the one trying to make things work…and each time I do this I always brings it to his notice that he is not doing what a real man should do, for this years I kept on complaining, still no changes. I had no other option then to break up with him.

Right now am in relationship with one of d Muslim guy, we’ve dated before we had issue so we broke up and now we r back together and he wants to settle down with me, yes of course this guy is not giving me all that I want but he is trying, he gets pissed @ me when am wrong, apologize when he is wrong, he is very hard working, he encourage me to be independent, he is even trying to fix me(business wise), I am not saying he is perfect but he is trying to be a perfectionist, with him I can feel a true relationship.

Personally I don’t have any issue getting married to him,thou he as made his intentions clear that he won’t allow me go to church, and I have concluded within me that I Will change to his religion(I didn’t tell him this) as far as I am concern we are good to go but I don’t think my family will b in support because he is a Muslim.

Pls I need advice what do you think I should do? No insult pls your opinion and advice will be useful pls.

115 COMMENTS

  1. That u r born into any religion is not a criteria that u must practice such a religion… I think u r old enough to know n willing to die for a religion u consider fit to worship ur creator..No matter the consequences…If he loves u n u love him too, religion will nv b an option….CU’s I HV seen a family that the father is a Muslim n mother a Christian… The father gv room for his children to decide which religion to practice……That a Christian guys gv u heartbreak is not an excuse, for me I will say u r desperate…… are u d first to HV a HEARTBREAK?????Be very careful before u make a decision that will make u leave the rest of ur life in REGRET, PAINS n agony worst than the heartbreak u r running away from..Be wise my dear, Life is too short to endure marriage….. for more advice….Hmmm####u no what to do!!!!!!!

  2. Since u v concluded on changing ur religion despite the fact dah u no ur family wldnt support you,
    So Aunty whay do you now want us to tell you…. Abegiiii Gerara hia joor…..
    N hw does dat change the fact dah u will soon belong to the kitchen n oda room kos no Palour for you…

  3. Accept him, marry him and you will never regret being a practicing Muslim. Ignore these bigoted advisers who do not mean well for ur eternal happiness. Gud luk dear and may the God Almighty who created Adam and eve from nothing and created his beloved prophet Jesus from Mary and Muhammad as his messenger accept u and bless ur union. Amen

  4. U re damn 2 hot 4 d kind of journey u re abt 2 embark on..Dnt marry him just wait in d other room small anoda christain guy ll come ur way soon.Am sorry if my comment is silly buh i rily cant help buh laf

  5. My sister! As you,ve concluded already, what I can advice you is… Pray to God for direction and also don’t do things that your family doesn’t want if you do so,you’ll not get your family blessings

  6. U are above 18yrs I think. So u have freedom of religion. But think we’ll dnt fall for him because u had previous heart breaks. Makes sure the love is real and u are ready to face d worst from ur family

  7. My sister the choice is yours.Marry him, change your religion and live in regret all your life.I am not trying to duscourage you but look before you leap.These muslims will deprive you of all you right as a woman

  8. Nice comment. Religion is for God. I see no reason y someone will keep changing religion cos of love. If he loves u right he will allow u to practice ur religion. What if he later breaks ur heart. Then u go back to Christianity. Thts funny

  9. My sister let m ask u a question, r u getting married to him or his religion, if ur getting married to his religion quit the relationship but if ur getting married to him then get ready to convert to Islam, marriage is for better for …………….

  10. abeg dont change your religion because of love of a man but change because u understand the man who worship one God and u are ready to worship God. bcos marriage is act of worshipping
    God.

  11. My sister the choice is yous, any issue involve in religion matter is a personal dicition, the muslim who has converted to christianity sake advice from no one but deside on their own, befor you regret atlas and put the blam on people comence and advice on facebook. A wise person view marreige far from the future not at the begining.

  12. there is no need seeking for advise anymore since u av made up ur mind,but there is sumtin i tell u which is for sure is better being laugh at now dan u not able to laugh forever cos of any decesion u re makin today,cos if u rush in,u rush out.choose wisely

  13. Hahaha bae shine ur eyes oo, ds is nt love, it is stupidity and desperation 4 marriage, bcuz u ve hrd he wil marry u, u now think u are in love, anyway wen he visits u in d kitchen and oda room and wen u hav 2 share d days and night with oda women, u wil hav no person 2 share ur probs with cuz u wont go to ur parents who wer against u…. Wen dat time cums, jst remember dat love is for better, for worse

  14. Like seriously! I wish I just kept passing, but I stopped to say this. Though you’ve conclusively said “my mind is made up to marry him” this is enough to tell us u don’t need our advises. But let me pretend I didn’t hear that. So in my candid advise, if you love Jesus, values his death on the cross for you and also believes in making heaven, then nothing should come between you and your christian faith. No doubt, you may leave a fulfilled life on earth if you keep to your conclusion of going into it. But my question is…… what about your after life?
    My dear sister……,
    Pause and #Think!
    Read your #Bible!!
    Kneel down and #Pray!!!

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