A Nigerian lady most definitely has broken the gallant heart of a military man after she rejected his marriage proposal and the reason she gave – although, practical – is just overwhelming.

According to the soldier who shared his heartbreak story, he and the lady had been dating for five years, before he decided to pop the question only for him to be turned down.

Nigerian lady rejects soldier’s marriage

The soldier revealed that the lady’s love towards him swerved after he joined the armed forces and was posted to Maiduguri in Borno state and as such, she said she won’t be able to marry him because she doesn’t know when he will die.

Read his tear jerking story below,

“I met this girl for over five years now and we have been dating,she made me to believe that she loves me so much, that she can’t do without me. I showed all the love as much as I can provided her with everything. Two Years after meeting her,i joined the army and I was posted to Maiduguri and I have been there making plans on how to get married to this lady not knowing that she has her own plans.

Since I joined the military, her attitude changed a little bit though I can’t figure out what’s actually the problem.not until I came back to propose to girlfriend with my heart full of joy hoping to get a positive answer, all of a sudden this lady looked into my eyes and said she can’t marry me, we can date but she won’t be able to marry me because she don’t know when i will die.

Since then I have been in thinking mood because I can’t believe what I heard from the lady I love so much.

8 COMMENTS

  1. guy just forget her an move on ok she will live to see u alive in d next 50yrs to come dey are plenty of girls out dey plz don’t think guy I no is not easy but try

  2. You don’t have to blame the lady she’s too old to be a widow…you are a soldier and you are expecting to live and fulfill your promise to her am sorry I doubted it…why do you have to risk your life because of this useless country that they don’t even value you guys life’s..our leaders are too selfish and useless to give your life too..I just pity your family and your future that God has for you… please don’t blame her… infact God will bless her as she rejected your proposal..I will advice you to withdraw from this useless military and have a plan and a wonderful future with a great family.. government doesn’t care about you guys..they are the one that is sponsoring them and they are the same person they will asked you to go and die for this useless country..the government are making use of your blood as a sacrifice..God as another plans for you… government as a family likewise you too..but they will never allow any members of their family to go and face war… please if you really love her…you have to withdraw from this military and marry her.. how many of you guys come back safely from the war.. still they burial you guys like a chicken… please withdraw…God will protect you over any premature die.. blood of Jesus Christ will uphold you amen..

  3. You don’t have to blame the lady she’s too old to be a widow…you are a soldier and you are expecting to live and fulfill your promise to her am sorry I doubted it…why do you have to risk your life because of this useless country that they don’t even value you guys life’s..our leaders are too selfish and useless to give your life too..I just pity your family and your future that God has for you… please don’t blame her… infact God will bless her as she rejected your proposal..I will advice you to withdraw from this useless military and have a plan and a wonderful future with a great family.. government doesn’t care about you guys..they are the one that is sponsoring them and they are the same person they will asked you to go and die for this useless country..the government are making use of your blood as a sacrifice..God as another plans for you… government as a family likewise you too..but they will never allow any members of their family to go and face war…

  4. Come and marry me bikonu, we live together as long as God wants us to in that state.. obviously she doesn’t love you cos if she does she will go anywhere you go and accept you for you..I’m single jare and I’m 24.

  5. One soldier join the military with hope to die young.
    Bro man up,be a man,life goes on.
    Loving someone is not an assurance that they love you back.
    You don’t know what you have been missing untill you find it.
    The life of a soldier is in the hands of God and same applicable to every other human.
    Soldier,God’s purpose for your life predates your conception.you will live to declare God’s word in the land of the living .
    Let her go and will give you someone who will appreciate what your call to do.
    Thanks

  6. No soldier join the military with hope to die young.
    Bro man up,be a man,life goes on.
    Loving someone is not an assurance that they love you back.
    You don’t know what you have been missing untill you find it.
    The life of a soldier is in the hands of God and same applicable to every other human.
    Soldier,God’s purpose for your life predates your conception.you will live to declare God’s word in the land of the living .
    Let her go and will give you someone who will appreciate what your call to do.
    Thanks

  7. Who knows weda she will die b4 u. Bro u gat natin to wori, life goz on. I was thr 5yrs n I kem bk safely without any issue. It God dat gat our lives not mere mortals like her. Chill n move on bikonu. Let go n mari som1 dat wl not die. Nonsense

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