Joro Olumofin, has shared the story of a female adult whose father is closely monitoring her se-x life.
A watch has been placed on her virginity for future purposes. She has had se-x with her boyfriend and she is not close to stopping.
Read her story below:
Am a girl of 21 years, am a student, a level 300. My father test my virginity every year at the hospital to see if am a virgin, he said if am a virgin my bride price will be high and my husband will love me more.
Before I used to believe him and be happy until I realize it’s his selfish need. I love this guy he’s my BF and soulmate. We had sex 2 weeks ago, we have been doing it almost everyday now. My fear is my birthday is in November and my father do the test every Birthday.
How can get I out this situation? Am an only daughter with 3 brothers. My mothers opinion doesn’t matter. My mother is not well educated. I want to live my life and make my own mistakes am not a goods for sale. Advise me please. Don’t judge me.
Its wrong and unintelligent for you to assume that your father is doing it for selfish reason. Rather your father is offering you such advice based on experience and for your very good. The world is turning very complex today that a lady to get married must put something valid on the table to attract the right kind of man and its your fathers thinking that your virginity will offer you an advantage.
Having disobeyed your father and gone ahead to take the forbidden fruit your case is like that of eve and must face the consequences.