3. Unnecessary little lies about where they are
If your partner consistently lies about where they are, it is possible that they are hiding something: a secret-engagement party, a drug-habit, or an affair.
If your partner constantly goes to the ends of the world to explain the casual question of “hey luv, where were you today”, this will be a good time to get your heart, and head, together before the existence of his/her new lover is thrust upon you.
4. He/she loses interest in initiating romance, and at times, sex
Previously there were things that the both of you loved doing. It was ‘our time’ for you both: strolls, reading together, cooking, making love etc.
If your partner is always not in the mood to do the very things you both loved to do, there is a high likelihood that they have found someone else who is keeping them physically and emotionally occupied.
5. Tantrums and name-calling
If you suspect that your partner is being unfaithful, and you confront them in a civil manner; there are several reactions they could adopt. The guiltiest of these reactions, and the one which shows they could be having an affair, is when they fly into a rage and call you names.
If your partner really loves you and is wholehearted committed to making your relationship work, they would try to assuage your fear; they won’t call you insecure, paranoid, jealous, or even crazy.
If your partner gets erratic at civil conversations on faithfulness, it is possible they are hiding a secret affair.
By Dede Williams
