I was pained while reading!
Girls! Girls! Girls! Once a Cheat, always a cheat!
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I walked into the room and met my best man making love to my wife
I met Charles on campus. I was in my first year in the university. I had just resumed and was trying to grapple with the demand of university life. One morning I had gone to the cafeteria. While paying for my food, I ran into a young handsome looking guy and we ended striking an acquaintance.
I later found out that we are both in the same department. From then we became friends. In the second year, we ended up being roommates. Our friendship grew from there. We were like brothers. We helped one another in our studies. We looked out for one another. In fact many people on campus thought we were brothers. Charles was a great guy. He was handsome tall and good looking. In fact in our third year on campus, he entered the Mr. Campus contest and won.
That made him become very popular. He was especially popular with the girls. They loved. In fact the attention was so much at a time that he lost focus and his grades suffered.
There were just too many babes jostling for his attention. In our fourth year, Charles had become very used to the attention that it meant nothing to him again. Our association blossomed.
As his fame grew, I became his manager when he attended shows. He also worked as the Master of Ceremony at school events. I was the calmer guy. I made sure I kept my head so I could put my best friend in check. At last we graduated and our parents, who had become friends because of our association, came to celebrate with us. When we left school, we continued our friendship.
We got jobs in two blue chip companies. We also continue to date our campus sweet hearts. Charles and I met our future partners at a departmental event on campus in our second year in the university.
They were both in another department. But we had continued the relationship even when Charles derailed and become way ward. I convinced his girlfriend not to give up on him. Eventually we all graduated and our relationship continued. After about two years of working I proposed to my fiancee. I did not want to waste any more time.
But something bad happened to Charles relationship with Adaeze, She had caught him again cheating and had decided to call it quits despite all my pleading. Charles was left to spend more time in my place as he complained of boredom. Adaeze doesn’t come to keep him company again. She had left the relationship for good.
I was sorry for my friend. But how many times will I keep interceding on his behalf? Charles now practically was living with me. He also became close to my woman. Gradually I discovered they were both unusually close. When I am at work, they will call me they went out together as Charles had been on leave from work. I noticed their relationship became closer.
But I still thought nothing of it. Many times, I my wife to be will stay glued to her phone chatting. I never thought nothing of it as she could be chatting with her sister s and friends. As the days turned into months, we began the planning for my wedding. Naturally, Charles became the choice for my best man. I had pacified my brother who returned from the United States that I and Charles had gone way back since our campus days.
The day of the wedding was set. I was also so busy that I did not notice the change in my fianceé body language. Every time I asked for romance, she was always reluctant and unresponsive. I had thought then that she was reserving her body until we get married. One day, instead of calling my name, she mentioned Charles. Well, I did not get angry because I and Charles are like blood brothers.
About two weeks to our wedding, I had gone to the office to retrieve my computer as I had been granted leave to prepared for the weeding. Charles was home and busy with preparations as usual. I returned home an hour short of when I told my fiancée I would returned.
I parked the car outside our gate as someone had already taken my parking space.I walked the distance to the house. The entire place was silent. I called out but no one answered. I climbed the staircase, and as I made to enter my room, I heard an unusual noise from the guest room. I went to the door and listen.
The noise was a moan of pleasure from an excited lady whose voice sounded like my wife. Why they refused to lock the door is what I can still not decipher. But according to the saying, every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
I pushed open the door and met my best friend, my best man for my wedding on top of my wife. They were both Unclad as they made love furiously. I shouted Charles name and became unconscious. I later found myself in the hospital. My cheating wife was at my bed side but Charles was nowhere in to be found.
He had packed all his things and absconded. I cried profusely as I looked at my wife. When my parents and sisters came into the hospital, I could not reveal to them what brought me to the hospital. I only lied to them that I was stressed out because of the wedding preparations. When they asked for Charles, I could not give any sufficient explanation and I could not tell them that he had been sleeping with my wife to be behind me. I was discharged from the hospital and I am back home.
My fiancée has gone back to her parents place and Charles is still missing. I was later told by his brother that he had travelled finally to Canada and had apologise for the short notice. I know Charles had escaped being confronted with his guilt. But I know he can run but not hide. My fiancée has been pleading that it was the devils work. She said she did not know the charm Charles used for her.
She has refused to tell me how long Charles has been sleeping with her though she swore the time I caught them was the first. How do I believe her? The wedding in two in two weeks and I still do not know what to do. Do I tell my family and cancel the wedding or should I forgive my wife to be.
This is the dilemma I have found myself. I love my wife to be but how can I live with the thought of seeing my best friend Unclad on top of my wife? Should I cancel the marriage and look for another woman or should I accept her apology?
This is why my friend, I’m scared of marriage!
Please, don’t marry her..call off the wedding!!! Tell your parents and her parents! Cos if you don’t, she’ll shag your gateman!
Once beaten, twice shy,
This is a difficult decision only u and u alone have to take bro, Love dey say covers multitude of sin, devil you know at times can be better dan d angel you don’t know. That woman may turn out d best wife in marriage for you, you pick another woman,we might be talking divorce in a short while….. No adviser will be dere den, just u. So it has to be ur decision.
Difficult decision, more difficult if u really love her. I think you should pray about it, Let God speak to you and then you can decide; cuz really if she can do dat two weeks to her wedding…
She was the angel you had who isn’t better than the devil you never had or had but fled to Canada. Last resort, pray & let God’s will be done in your life.
Follow your heart marrage is something you need to eat and think about cos once your in your in
Wow… its huge. You know the saying that says don’t tell someone to get over something that u haven’t been through or have the idea off. It’s heartbreaking and a bridge of trust. The decision still lies with u. What if we say to forgive her and continue and she ends up doing same shit over,what if we say forget her and move on and at the end the new one is worst and u wish u hadn’t let go. Bro the decision still lies within u. Hope u get through it.
My advise here is that u should go n tell ur pastor n not ur family. Secondly, ur wife 2 be should go 4 deliverance. Also, let it known 2 ur wife 2 bes’ family.
Bro, hmmmmmm… We women sha!just forgive her but tell her parents so they knw what dey trained, tell ur parents, like they say once bitten twice shy.the lord will find u a beta wife that will not shag ur bro,gateman, best friend and probably sis.don’t! I repeat don’t marry her.but forgive her.and tell her parents
Dude, u definately love this girl! I’ll tell u two things, 1- get to the bottom of this, ask her questions and investigate her as well. 2- tell her u hav to tell ur parents about it! Frm her reaction u will knw wat to do. Best of luck. (she is not worth the stress tho, ur doing this cos u LOVE) #thisthingcalledLOVE #SMH
Ummmmm, to d best of my own knowledge,postponed d wedding date and by den u must av known what to do is ur decision bro.Dat kind of lady can end ur life if u are not careful,God will teach u what to do.
Rose ozoemena
The capital questions is the doae ahe love u. She might have a backup plan of going to Canada wiyh her run away lover . To continue her life with him. Then it will ne your lose. God has revealed the ture colour of her . forgive her but don’t make the mistake of marrying her
dont call of d wedding,give her a secound chance.If ur luv 4 her iz 99%,u reduce it to 30% and continue watching her & see d trueness & seriousness of her apology, 4 an adage says(he who is used to left hand canneva 4get using it).Thanks.
If you leave her to marry anoda person do you know d past of d new person isbeta yyou forgive her and forget it .
H; mmmmmmmmmmm
hmmmmmm,s hard but if u really luv her u can take her back. but s smtin u cnt forget in your lifetym nd wenver u’r alone u see d memory cumin.but if u luv her u can pardon.but she knw try knw matter hw d temptation cum she wey knw say she won marry in 2weeks tym.
I can’t really tell u to quite nor consider rather make ur self a vessel 4 God to use u. Life the say is not a bed of roses
If truly she loves u she shd be able to tell u how many times they have been enjoying each other…Nd how sure are you even if u marry her nd Charles comes back won’t it be same?