Nigerian actress, Sarah Martins has contested Solomon Buchi’s claim that the divorce rate is lowest among virgins.
Recall that Solomon Buchi asserted that statistics support the idea that individuals who maintain low-key, monogamous relationships and remain virgins are happier in their marriages and are, consequently, less likely to seek divorce.
However, Sarah Martins provided anecdotal evidence to counter Solomon Buchi’s claims.
She said that she was a virgin when she was married at 19, but she was clear that this did not save her from having to make the difficult decision to leave her spouse when her health was in danger.
Even in cases where she was a devoted, submissive, and hardworking woman, Sarah Martins believes that remaining a virgin does not guarantee a long-lasting marriage.
She wrote;
“Dear Solomon Buchi,
I was married as a virgin at the age of 19. I am still a loyal, submissive, respectful, and hardworking woman.
Getting married as a virgin will never stop you from getting a divorce if the need arises .. if e no good for your health quit!
Some of us are totally different from what we portray online … Stop the comparison already!
The fact you got married to a virgin shouldn’t be an avenue to talk down on other people!
We are all unique in our own ways!
And yes, I was married as a virgin so what’s the jubilation about ?????
Mtcheeew
#divorced”