I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband’s Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It?

Anytime i have disagreement with my husband, he would always tell me that “I WL GO OUTSIDE, PLENTY BABES DEY OUTSIDE DAT NEED MEN AND I WONT EVEN SPEND MUCH B4 THEY OPEN THEIR LEGS”. I always feel hurt by this statement because I believe that we should BOTH be committed to make our home work. If i wont go out there to look for men why should he?

My marriage is just 2yyears but i have never enjoyed 1month happiness. My hubby would prefer to stay late @work because he doesn’t want our baby to disturb him with cry cry. I’m a sit @home mum, I resigned my marketing job because I want to have time for my baby but now my husband would not give me money anytime we have misunderstanding, not even for my baby too.

I have called his parents’ attention to this but his people call me “ABOKOKU”. That because he is married to me doesnt mean he should not enjoy himself, afterall, there are times someone is tired of eating rice and you would want to taste beans and other varieties. His father (57yrs) still has concubines which his mum can’t do anything about. But the truth is that this thing is wearing me out emotionally.

I AM MARRIED BT LONELY

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  4. If u can’t over look, then under look it. Hmmm, u are lucky he uses condom, what if he goes necked? Abeg allow my man ministry to move forward, but we men self can be unbelievable a times, u have a wife at home and u can’t keep ya dick at home. Rubbish!

  10. My dear you don’t have to mark your husband like that do not put your your eyes in most of the things that he does over look some so that you will live long because if you start marking him too much you will die before your time and he will still leave

  17. ask him nw,is he nt ur husband?if ur husband sees smtin lyk dat or if a man snt u a txt wont he ask u to explain urself,thrs notin bad in askin,beta to ask instead of dyin in silence,even if ur husband is gonna lie abt it still ask In a Polite manner,n wl also advise u improve ur action on d bed ok

  20. is it the full pack or just a single sachet; if its d full pack count how many is inside to know if he has used any,if some is missing that’s when u shud be worried but if its still complete,it means he’s about to embark on a journey;my dear start fasting and prayer!

  22. My darling over look it and go into prayers, if u ask him any it, I will defend him self and there is nothing u will do abt it,and he will still continue were he stop his games okkkk try and me happy and pretend u didn’t c or saw anything. Love u

  23. I saw mine last Friday I pretend I never see anything…Am glad he uses condom….You might see the worst if u approach him ….so keep it low ….I have nothing problem once he takes care of my kids b me…I don’t lack anything…if I try to show him I saw something he might bring d woman home n nothing I will do about it…..I allow peace to reign.

  36. Overlook it my sister else if you approach him, he might not even apologise which is more painfull and even if he does, that will not stop him and any other time you try talking to him about it again, it might turn to something else. So just pretend not to know,(the good part is that in reality, you know) and go on your knees to scatter d relationship, I bet you it works. Hardluckf

  44. The way some women here are sounding shows how stupid we can be! It’s u pple that give these lunatics the morale they use in doing whatever they like..am sure u are happy their likes are praising u for ur wonderful contribution.
    Now, for ur information, u have every right to ask ur husband what a condom is doing in his pocket but before that, u should know that if he loves u, he will lie n may later tell the truth (very rare) n ask for forgiveness. But if he doesn’t, he will give u the answer u wanna hear in a very mean way. Now, whatever he tells u, make sure u don’t create a quarrel out of it. Or better still, bring it out of the pocket n drop it on the bed for him to come pick it up n if he pretends not to see it, remind him of his property n see his reaction…Or u put it in ur belongings where u know he will see it. Let him see it n ask u the “expected question” n then u throw it back at him n see how he will melt. Don’t tell me that stupid crap that u won’t show him because u fear his reaction. U married ur spouse, lover not ur dad or boss. Nonsense!!

  46. try using the same soup to eat garri for 11 months , you will get tired of the soup , you will even fall sick…man needs some extra love… and you should be glad he uses a condom.

  49. Well my dear I will advice you to pretend as if you did not see anything because you will end up feeling bad if he tells you the truth and trust me he will definitely lie to you and I know you won’t like that unless you want to hear the bitter truth at least he is using protection.

  51. My dear don’t be in a rush to ask,pretend like a foolish person for now,after some few days ……time him when both of you are in good mode then …make fun of it,…..it will look like joke but the truth will comes out …..small..small they will tell you the truth, not by ash words

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  54. Atleast be grateful he uses one…i beg overlook and probably get him more.
    Hez cheating and no nagging or sweet talk can stop him.
    Accept him and be prayerful,with prayer he can stop it.
    And make sure u are satisfying him too,though they are not satiable.

  61. The woman who was married to a man for 50 years without a fight was interviewed. Interviewer: madam, u had been married for good 50 years without a fight, what is your secret. Then she replied: I don’t search, because if I search I would find.

  65. What if he went for HIV rest and the condom was given to him? Have you forgotten that NACA and SFH are also sharing condoms daily for prevention of HIV. It could be he was given.Bc men hardly put condom in wallet instead they hide it in their cars. Where u can never see

  66. All dis answers is soo annoying . D post break my hrt ,talkless of. Dats y I hate to be married. I jst dnt no y, but if is a woman nw he will send her packing. God is watching my dear husbands n wives, I dnt no wat u ppl r doing, u ppl dnt no wat u r doing to us d singles. U r telling us dat marriage is all abt cheating.making d singles to hav fear for marriage. Husbands put ur self under d shoes of ur wives, and pls hav a hrt, hav God fearing. Think abt d children, an respect ur home’s for God sake. Tufwkaw.

  74. A senior friend of mine saw such in her husband bag wen he came back frm an outside duty.she never complained, never said a word but she bought a packet of condom and dropped it in his bag as she ws arranging the husband’s cloths.but wen he came back the next weekend, he went on his knees, asking for forgiveness. Use ur head dear!!

  81. You are lucky he has condom, you are free from HIV. It could be that he does not have sex with anybody but just keeping it incase he is harassed. Thank God you having a good man like him.

  88. Silence is what u shd keep and Thank God he uses condom.As long as he takes care of you and kids(if any)then there is no need to get mad.All you do is keep praying for him cos ur prayers matters alot in his life ….

  102. men of nowadays don dey cause women to fear. no woman is ready to do anything. don’t worry all bcos of let peace reign I pray another woman not take over ur home. u no ur man enough. u no d tactics to approach him dat will nt cause any conflict u do it as a woman. if women of these are like this already then there is problem ahead. I can’t just and watch my man have other ladies. what if I do the same

  103. First get off Facebook and pray to God. Drop it where you are so sure that he will see it. Watch his reaction. His reaction will determine if you have to remind him of what he saw on top of his pillow case. NB: try to talk calmly and don’t raise your voice please. I know how you feel. Don’t keep quiet if you can’t keep it to yourself. Talk to your husband and remind him of his marriage vows. Don’t accuse him, because he will just go defensive and might even become nasty towards you. Report him to God and no one else. If you tell your friends, some will mock you and some will go after him since they now know his weakness. Don’t tell your family because they will loose respect for him. If you tell his people, they will tell him and they will use as their dinner discussion, while your husband will detest you for betraying him and making him walk naked. Remember, don’t shout. If you do, only few men will beg you sorrowfully. Others, will fly into the arms of a mistress (and make her his confidant)
    So, if you wish just drop it where he will see it and remain silent while praying. This is the advice I know my very good aunt would give.
    I know that you are hurting right now and it’s good you cry in your closet and just pray. I do not want to generalize but “most” are unfaithful and that’s why there is problem in marriages. Some women disgracefully are even now worse than the men. I pray for you to be strong and wise in this vulnerable time in your life. May God’s angels surround and protect you. May God’s peace fill your broken heart and mind right now. Please, forgive him and never bring it up in the future. My heart breaks along with yours . Be strong. One more advice, since you’ve discovered this. Don’t allow females (colleagues, friends, sisters, cousins, house help) to cluster you especially in his presence. Don’t encourage unnecessary friendship of these females with your husband. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

  105. From the comments , The nerve at which women sugarcoat men’s madness
    truly hurts! Would your advice be the same if she was positive due to his unfaithfulness. Rubbish! and for the Mumu people saying she should “thank God, he uses comdom” who told you he uses the condoms sef? Having a condom is one thing, using it is another ! obviously sticking your dick in every thing that has legs and a hole makes you a man not the obvious self control, morals and values..cheating is a taught and accepted behavior to most males. If the husband was the one who found the condoms in wife bag am sure the comments would be different! Men expect so much from women but little is expected from them..that’s an issue. I blame women for low expectations and standards..

  106. Pray for him because prayer is the master key, but never forget that all men are cheats ! so you have better grow up and take charge of your own life in a Godly way… Move on like nothing has ever happened… May God help women all over the world.

  107. My dear sister. Pls, over look it n move on with ur marriage. Any body wey tell say e easy for outside, make u no believe them ooooooo. Secure ur parade n take it to God in prayers. Good luck!

  115. Overlook it, men will always be men.All men cheat,all men lie.You can never trust a man when it comes to women All men are thesame,They are all dirty fuckers who always want to put their John Thomas inside any vagina they see.You just need to accept it and move on with life.

  116. Responses you give to Whatever challenges you have at home, makes you either a better person or a bad person. In responding to challenge, bury your pride, aim higher do not listen to advice that will bring up your pride. Remember with pride come failure. Pray God to enable you overcome your challenge.

  118. You should be happy he uses condom..
    Now that u know…
    Make sure u give him a pack of condom everyday he goes out..
    Not a big deal.. Every man cheats but d one who cheats with protection is d cheat with wisdom ..lol
    .my dear go and cook for him to eat he has been rough handled…be happy u didn’t see the ladies pant.. Lol

  143. My dear you should thank God that he used it….. Take a piece of paper and write this.. “MY LOVELY HUSBAND, I JUST REMOVED THE ONE YOU USED AND REPLACED IT WITH A NEW ONE IN CASE YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU MAY CONSIDER GOING RAW.. MY IMAGINATION OF MY DARLING HUSBAND IN ANOTHER WOMAN’S ARM MELTS THE SMILE YOU HAVE PUT ON MY FACE. WHAT HAPPENS THE MAN I GAVE UP ALL FOR? I THOUGHT YOU EQUALLY GAVE UP ALL FOR ME… BELIEVE ME, IT’S PAINFUL TO KNOW THAT I’M NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU, BUT IT’S MORE SCARY TO THINK THAT MY LIFE IS AT RISK IN YOUR HAND..

    AIDS IS REAL.
    CONDOM BREAKS.

    I’M THE ONE WHO VOWED TO LOVE YOU TILL THE END OF MY LIFE.. I’M THE ONE YOU COME HOME TO MEET. I BEG YOU MY LOVE, DON’T BE THE ONE WHO DESTROYS US.. I love you very much…….
    Yours ever, for the family.””

    Put the note in a packet of condom and put it back where you found the one you are holding. Brighten up and forgive him…

    I wish you success in your wish for his change. May God be with you and your family.

  153. You are married but lonely. Smh…..
    Well, its Better to be single n lonely than the other way around. I guess you guys had courtship, you obviously saw the signs and ignored them. That’s d result wen we settle for just anything In the name of I have to get married ASAP.

  158. Linus zumba.. U too sabi lie I beg clear make I see road jare. Na to dey forge stories dey rain now even pass d recession season1. You marry come carry your marriage matter come media say make we do Wetin? We be chief judge of the federation on marriage matter. Nonsense like say u no get family.

  161. Yh…over look it dear. It would have been pretty bad if he never used it. Talk to him later, maybe after four to five days…ask him and tell him how u feel just finding out what he did.

  165. yes oh jut ignore him ………becus if u really want 2 start asking questions…….u melt start having problems…in ur home ………overlook and save ur marriage 4 d sake of ur children ……..z/#everyday of my life i wish I had a complete family while growing up

  171. Madam as a woman of God, all u need to do is to over looked it,pretend as if u saw nothing and see the way he will be behaving towards you,by the time u start shouting it shows that u are asking him to go ahead to do more,back everything with prayer s and God will see you true.

  173. Over looked it and asked him one day, if you are satisfying him in bed or not, and you should also put more effort whenever you having sex and not just to lied down, may be that’s where you are failing and some one normally fuck him outside, so check yourself

  177. Ma I saw some reactions remember that man and woman are not the same,please look into God the author and finisher of our faith,do not allow some one to take u out of your husband house,if it happen to them they know how to tackled it,God bless u madam

  181. You are very lucky he uses condom,be grateful,what if he goes necked like some foolish men who goes around spreading STDs and HIV,my dear it only the roof that shade us,it covers our nakedness,if we are to b exposed!, you could have seen he loves you very much if he uses the condom.

  185. My dear if am to say, i will tell you to overlook it bcoz my mum will always tell us to overlook some certain things that our husbands are doing for you to have a long life and run away from high blood pressure that does not make you a fool but for peace to rain. Men are some thing else, God will deliver us from their hands

  186. Ifunanya Trixie. It appears u re not married but u hv raised salient and marriage saving points. Thank u.
    In all of it what every woman should know is that a man unlike a woman naturally goes after women bcos of the God given features which women possess and flaunt seductively for men to see, and by this most men fall into wanting to taste and thereby cheating on their wives with exception of very few.. 3 out of 100. Therefore, there is no good balance of probability that if u do anything unwisely and u separate from him, the next man u will meet will not as well cheat on u and even display it to ur face, which ur previous husband may never hv done.
    Being that as it may, its pertinent to critically examine ur husband to decify his reasons for cheating and carefully handle d issue of cheating in ur family with utmost wisdom bcos its a common thing with most men but it’s better dat d man respect his wife so that she doesn’t get to know and thereby hurting her.
    Cheating can also come as a repercussion on some women who when they were girls had also dated or slept another woman’s husband. Now too someone must sleep with ur own.
    Finally I encourage every woman who notice that her husband is cheating not to fight her husband or leave him, but to take the case to God in serious prayers and fasting (infact 14days atleast), cry to God and He will answer. Reorient the spiritual level of your home, spent quality time to pray for ur cheating husband for God to intervene n redeem him. Also see to it that u show him more love and attention now than b4 including deliberately wanting to sleep with him (kerewawa) almost everyday even when he is not in the mood. Do this kerewawa wit him regularly, put him in d mood even when he is not d mood, by touching and caressing his lollipop to initiate actions. If u can do this almost everyday and back it up with intense prayers continuously for 1yr, forget, u will sure redeem ur hubby even if he was a male prostitute b4 u married him. God bless u

  208. I can see there are prayer warriors in here.
    Can’t you relax before typing?
    What has prayer got to do with this?
    We all know everything needs prayer but pls read the question again.
    Naija sha #Smh

  212. Yes ofcourse! Pray for him nd ur family. So you avoid problems in ur life nd ur marriage. Ur children are more important to worry over than a condom,atleast he know he shld protect himself,its now up to u to check urself from time to time medically.

  219. Hmmmm. Love your husband for whom he is, I mean LOVE. These word can close your eyes on anything he does wrong. Men are polygamous by nature, they must cheat on you, that does not mean he doesn’t love you, be a friend and a lover to your husband and that is the only way you can live together. Women are stronger than man in carrying pressures, we can resist temptations and avoid them but men can’t , why, they cannot hide their emotions , sometimes, they don’t go after women but women lure them just to pull them down spiritually. Our men needs us , they need our support to overcome and to resist temptations. So, I will advise you to let him be but to buy more condoms and put in his wallet, you have just killed his conscience , please don’t put up a fight, you will push him to go and do more. Bless you

  226. U can ask h bt in loving way ,evn if he dosnt answer u dnt feel bad nd dnt fight him cos u already knw he is cheating on u,wht p advose u tp do is to lopk for another job to aviod asking tpo much,hw can u bcme a full tyme hause wife wit d hardship nw.marry ur bible nw nd wit consistence prayer nd suplication u ll win evrytin bck including ur hppiness take note,dnt go to ur lnlaws again,

    A

  228. Congratulate him atleast he is not careles he has the mind to protect himself and you too my sister men will always be men there is no man who doesnt cheat but let them cheat wisely like your husband, my future husband hope you’ve heard what i’ve said.

  230. i thank GOD for my kind of heart in marriage.i was adviced that men are polygamous in nature.with few references i accepted it naturally to avoid heart atack or high bp.no woman outside can be a threat to my marriage. exept am having child issue,but if GOD blesses any one with kids well mixed.i think am secure & any concubine out there is inferior.& has expiring date.for me i always tell my man am the only soup u will eat for ever whether hot or cold tasty or sour,no leave no transfer.also i never fail to look good cos men like packaging.

  237. Different advice on different kind of husband, its easier said than done, if you have never caught him cheating or seen such…you can sit him down and you guys talk about it, you have the right to be angry but don’t go overboard. ..if he is the cheating husband and you are used to him like that, good for you…the truth is that the society has placed the advantage on men to misbehave more than women, even your parents will tell you seeing a condom on his bag is not enough to end your marriage…but if reverse is the case, I mean seeing a condom on the wife’s pause hmmm…”the igwe must hear this”…the comments here will change drastically. ..in a nutshell, ladies please know your man and his values and how he respects you then try to keep your home together. ..marriage no be beans!!!

  238. Yes over look it is one of dose tins still love him more and still give him dose respect dats where for better for worst dat u guys make at ur wedding vow comes in and continue to pray for him

  239. DO YOU PEOPLE USE CONDOM NORMALLY?
    If yes think twice before complaining.
    If no keep the condom for sometime to observe his body language, then discuss it with him in a matured manner.
    He is ur husband u know him better than we all on fb.
    May God grant u wisdom to handle ur family issues.

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  248. U should be happy he is concern abt ur health, how many of we men can still be faithful to our partners?even if we want to, who will take care of other ladies out there Dt are in need of men not boys?just continue to luv ur husband and learn how to live with the trend.

  253. Ok ,guys if you caught your wife cheating on you what will be your reaction, don’t forget women are also human with feelings. I guess is time we find a way to retaliate. Days of polygamous in nature should be over were is the Gods words we hear.

  262. Well for a man to cheat on his wife, it means he no longer love the woman anymore , the woman will feel disappointed and hurt, I pray she is mature enough to handle the suitation . Unless she cheats too that she will not get mad , ask him !

  267. As my husband I have every right to ask him what the condom is doing there, as a woman, if u cannot ask him that means ur cheating too, I can only ask God to give me the grace to ask Him politely cos it pains….. Starting from that day, I will make sure that I give him condom before going out….conscience is the best disciplinarian. no matter how he pretends his subconscious mind will always pinch him…. Don’t die cos of men too or develop sickness cos of them…… Cos they don’t worth dying for

  274. I must make u known that I know so u stop sweet talking me that u only have eye for me, than i pray that u get what u have sow ,(God of camar) I don’t think is a bad prayer because if I do same I get what I sow so that my take on this because I hate cheating….

    • Be happy that he is using condoms, there’s nothing to be happy about, make sure he explains himself and make him understand that he has to rebuild the trust In that marriage again. And mind your, it’s the hand that you give him now that he will follow, babe, it’s in their blood so you have got to change it by prayers and standing up, go out and mingle with friends so that he can suspect you and then see how it feels.

  294. Ask him in a peaceful manner and find out what you are not doing right to warrant him do so and start doing what he enjoys more out there. Show him more love and pray seriously that God change him. Even Condom is not a guarantee from contacting std’s, HIV etc… good luck dear.

  296. My sister thank God ur husband uses condom like me I like listening to lies even wen I konw the truth if u want to ask him use wisdom anything I see in my home good or bad I take it as part of marriage so pls tread with caution

  299. Mr Samson as for me I was washing his cloths n I saw de condom in his pocket.
    He told me he was using it for illustration to de students meanwhile he’s English teacher.waaaaa hw£.
    I thank God oooo for how far He has brot me.wen ur cup is full ,it will run over.My dear dnt worry at all
    Dey always beg BT repeating de same tin beging beging beging till thy kingdom come zeg..

  311. Stop typing over look it for crying out loud. I’m burning right now.
    To all guys typing over look it:
    You find a condom in ur wife purse. Will you over look it?
    Ahba! Think before typing naaaaah.

  313. Pray fr him bt dont giv urself heart attack or kill urself fr a man ,move on n pretain u did nt see it n focus on u n ur kids ,most expecially pray n fast fr him fr god to arrest him n do ur duty as a good wife God wil surprise u ok.i knw is nt easy cos if u ask him he wil play wit ur head n deny so dnt bother urself just leave it there fr him or throw it is a sign uve seen it n he knws if is ur duty to park n fix his cloths.just b strong follow ur heart n dnt spoil ur marriage fr another to come in ,men re d same bt few re choosen frm god to b faithful n pure.pray fr ur own no one is perfect n u 2.make ur home do d things he misses frm u whn u were single more dressng n sexy fr him.Bt pray n keep ur home n dont share wit people

  315. Wil u continue asking u wil kil urself silently my sister I knw is painful bt wht wil u do evn if u ask it wont change anything bt stories .pls pray n tell God to fight ur battle mak a room n pray b calng his name n talk to God ,put ur husband n front of jesus

  319. Am a guy but till today i still dont understand why men Cheat but i think the simple truth is that its women that makes men cheat.if you know a man is married and u stop him from comin close and even embarass him piblicly he will stop,and stick to his wife and on the other hand if bcos the man his cute,rich or handsome u find single girls running after him irrespective of the fact that they know he is married.so the bottom line here is that women generally make men to Cheat

  324. Hmmmmmmmmmm to me any man that Married n still go on cheating on her has never married his wife he married his girlfriend. THE BIBLE SAYS THAT HER BREAST WILL SATISFY U ALL THE DAYS OF UR LIFE that is when u married ur own wife .king Solomon was a stupid man that Married 700 women n still go ahead cheating them with 300 girlfriends .this is fooly in the highest ranking

  327. Every body talk about men cheating on their wives what about women who cheat on Their husband ???? Anyway, madam call ur husband Ask him how come about the condom, U have all the right to know what is going on in ur family but do it in a mature manner

  332. Sorry dear what do u want to do, if l may ask u, u want to fight abi carry on and fight him, is better for you to overlook and pray to God to bring him back to u fully. Don’t relent in prayer.

  342. Don’t just overlook it unless ur his type (cheaters) .let him know u saw dat . First Question him in a good manner like

    *honey(or whatever u guys call each oda) what’s this for? or
    *I saw a condom in ur wallet

    Then he will start to explain himself (the reason why for questioning him include dat a man/anybody can get a condom anywhere like dia was a day a health organization visited my school,after teaching about HIV and ways to prevent it, dey distributed condom to everyone.) so seeing a condom with him especially d first time doesn’t mean he is cheating. So first question him let him explain

    If he is guilty let him know it hurts u, be angry and work away (don’t fight him ,don’t shout at him) let ur actions tells him ur not happy .if he loves u or has an atom of love for u he will come apologize to u. If u can forgive him(forgive him) don’t forget to tell him not to do it again. Dis words will always rings in his brain any time he wanna cheat or thinks of dat. Thanks

    #lightOG

  351. Shu that one na talk u beta be api that he still remember to use protection….and go to the mkt 2 get him more and always check his wallet if it finished or not..den place a sweet kiss on his chick just to say tnx darling for being health conscious… and den relax to watch the film… my opinion tho b4 some ladies or married woman we start pouncing on me..so I guess am entitled to my opinion case close thank u…..n mind you it wat I’ll do cause I won’t just stress myself by confronting him since I know where it ll end…

  353. My dear keep quiet. Next time he is going out on a journey, pack for him some and remain quiet and if he finds and ask tell him you found before and you feel he needs it. All the best and tell him he means to you and walk away. Avoid catching the fish from the head

  354. @Sensualidad su.. you don’t have to be insultive before proving your point…cutting off the head is not the solution to an headache… confronting him won’t change a thing just pray God don’t give you a cheat as an hubby dat all… n moreover woman aren’t fool we just being strong yea we all know that if it was to the other way round it won’t be dat funny…

  356. Woman mind how u tret ur husband by ur attitude, neatness to him am supporting him wot d man did is very bad in d sight of God bet some woman are very wicked, daity nd hatch to dia husband DT may cos man into such bad life

  371. Ignore that then pray for his change that is if you yourself is close to GOD The home maker let no one compare you into fighting your marriage, i recommend movie called ”WAR ROOM” . Is well

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