If you were cheated on, first of all do these 12 things

All relationships are ups and downs, they always include moments of happiness and times of despair.

But when relationship ruins because of cheating, sometimes it is really hard to collect your broken pieces and keep on living.

Of course, time heals any wounds, but we have several faster and more effective ways of surviving the cheating.

1. MUST: Define the “red flags”

Now, when everything is over between you two, you can easily define those alarm signals that were present in the behavior of your ex that took precession of cheating or pointed at it.

This could be fierce protective position in answer to the most softball questions or even disappearing for a couple of days.

For you, the realization of some details to which you didn’t give much importance may become a real sudden clarification, as in reality they all had a hidden meaning. Well, it’s time to learn the lesson.