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This photo is currently causing serious buzz on the internet.

The photo shows a young lady obviously serving as a maid of honour at her friend’s wedding as she is seen weeping profusely in the photo as the actual bride calmly walks behind her with the groom.

Social media users have since commented on the viral photo while offering differing views.

Many suggested that the young woman is too happy for her friend thereby causing the tears to flow.

However others maintained that the young lady is crying because she has feelings for the groom and may have even slept with the man and so was sad because her friend has overtaken her.

What do you think?

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246 COMMENTS

  22. Now I know u can turn news upsidedown! D gal crying suppose to b d bride but something happened n her guy marry her friend! …tell us exactly wot happened so dat we can know how to tackle d issue! Yaba!

  25. The groom was her ex lover who she called a broke ass the guy is now a rich dude… To cut the long story short this same guy she dumped is the same guy marrying her bestie what a shame I was there…

  37. She might not be jealous….she might be d bride’s sister. …who knows if one useless fake pastor has said sm1 placed a curse on d family n no one will get married n naw sm1 is getin married…abeg e reach 2 cry…we are all in God’s hands….I wish her her own husband

  41. Am not seeing it as jealousy, it must be that they are very very close, an definitely that their gud time won’t be that much again be her friend has family and she’s under a man now, her movement now is limited, these are the things she’s remembering that is making her cry.

  52. It’s neither of the two. This is called frustration, pain, bitterness and regret. When will it be my turn? Why not me? What have I done to be standing alone? Why??? But God knows why? Wait for your turn. It will definitely come if you so desire it.

  55. Do not judge. l am viewing it in two ways, she might be smone who z Emotional. So, in dat case she might av been over excited, nd can’t hide it. And secondly, D bride might be her close pal, nd she z missing her already. lf it wer 2 be out of jealousy, she may not cry, but wl frown uncautiously. One wl not need 2 be told b/4 u knw dat she z not happy. Whatever, let wait tl 2morw, she go clear d hear. Abi?

  67. Maybe all her friends are getting married and she was like praying to God and from there tears started flowing n she couldn’t hold it back, it can also be tears of joy for her friend” God is the one that knows the secret behind those tears

  69. Dis is pure jealousy……. Maybe she dated d guy before or behind her friend,and he left her and married her friend…..i hear someone said it’s tears of joy, for where! How many people cry’s dis days wen peoples are getting married? Even families does no longer do dat anymore but even happy dat u are getting married to leave the house……. So my friends be careful how are called ur friend or friends cuz those tears u called tears of joy maybe some else….. Things are happening.

    • Why are you talking as if ure not a woman? B4 a woman can use someone as chief bridesmaid dey must be very close and trust eachother. Na so u Dey sleep with ur friends boyfriend? Haba! Na d thing wey u dey do na? How can you think like ds?

    • My dear are you there in her mind???? Miss right….. Let me hear word,u talk as if you don’t know girls of dis days……..not in dis generation any more and even if you are too emotional, look at dat pic very well.Talking about close friend of Chief bridesmaid,wat if d person u have in mind Marry’s before you, won’t u have a Chief bridesmaid again???? For me Chief bridesmaid can b any body around u as sister,cousin or any friend who is available.My dear just b careful,how many girls still dey introduce their man friend to their friends dis day or take their friends to visit the guy in his house????? No tell me ……….well I wish you all the best in life,d day u will get married ,invite d whole villagers and friends to b crying on ur head in d name of tears of joy o.d reason why you are talking like this is cuz girls have not deal with u yet. Not wait until things happen to you before you learn……learn from people mistake dat is me OK. Just b careful cuz d devil u know is better than the angel u don’t know,even if you want to shed tears of joy in the name of praying or feeling d whole thing…… Do it gentle in a manured way not obviously dat u are feeling bad.so my dear I am not talking nonsense I know exactly what am saying ok

  72. To knw d truth i would have to c d lady so i can search her mind..mtcheww Nigerians..who cares,she is crying at a wedding. pipo cry at weddings all d time,whether out of joy or jealousy its her own nsobu.hian

  74. SHE MIGHT B CRYING BECAUSE SHE IS GONNA MISS HER FRIEND COS HER MARRIAGE WILL CHANGE N AFFECT THEIR CLOSENESS N FRIENDSHIP…
    BUT I BELIEVE D MAIN REASON Y SHE MIGHT B CRYING IS DAT AS A SINGLE GIRL OR A LADY DAT SHE IS DUE FOR MARRIAGE,, SHE MIGHT HV REMINISCE N REMEMBERED HOW MANY MEN DAT HV CAME ACROSS HER, D GOOD, BAD, SUNNY N RAINY DAYS,, D SACRIFICES, HER BODY DAT SHE HAS OFFERED,, SLEEPLESS NIGHTS,, HEART BREAKS N LOTS OF WARS SHE FOUGHT JUST TO MK THOSE MEN HAPPY BUT NONE OF THEM ENDED UP WITH HER BUT D FRIEND TURNS OUT TO B LUCKIER DAN HER..
    TO ALL THOSE GIRLS DAT HAS KEEP IT WITH THEIR MEN,, MAY GOD GV U ALL D MAN OF U PEOPLE’s CHOICE. JUST PREPARE COS U RE DOING UR TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE N WEDDING BY DECEMBER

  76. The girl rejected the guy when he had nothing even though he loved her, the bride to be being a best friend of her kept advising her to exercise patience for the guy but she refused, n later the guy got married to the best friend who accepted his proposal n waited till the guy made it, that’s why she is crying …. Her cries was just regrets it’s a lesson to some girls out there who think that everything should be “already- made”……a woman can still open doors for a man, a man with vision n focus is worth giving a trial.

  87. Some people are very emotional and quick to shed tears . It’s possible she thought of someone. A mistake she made or a betrayal or just a failure of relationship . It could be anything . Jealous people are hardly emotional.

  92. Av once cried for a friend like dis so is neither joy nor jealousy…is jux d feeling dat things ar not gonna b d same anymore
    now she committed nd am gonna miss d good times we shared toether datz all

  94. Not jealousy…I believe they are close and she might be remembering what her friend passed through before getting her man . OR …she is like, let hers happen soon with a silent prayer and tears.

  97. Most pple talking about jealousy or ex i can boldly say u guys ve not experience true friendship. Do u know wot it means growing up together as friends or even sisters going through life struggles together and finally u see how ur friend is blessed and has achieved most of wot she wanted then u wouldn’t be happy for her to me is tears of Joy and thought of how she will be missed.

  99. That is not jealousy, she is only reflecting back 2 when the both started there different relationship with there guys and now her friend is married wit same guy but her own break up wit her when is almost close 2 marrage and she love him so much. Remembering things lik this can make u cry and knowin that al ur friend are all married. God wil position u and u wil smile again.

  109. What if she equally got laid by the groom without her friend knowing, and she is thinking of what she is about to loose or something like “why am I always being laid only for the true owners to take them away from me, why? Why? Why????????????????. Lol.

  116. I call it tears of joy, you guys may not understand, i cried at my friend wedding i was her maid of honor she was more than a friend but a sister to me through she was my senior but, you can’t see her in a place without me. So you guys should stop saying is Jealousy cos someone that is jealous of you, you can never see that person tears a specially in the public.

  127. She is going to miss her dear friend, that’s all. I once saw my mum cry at her friend’s wedding.. Being an inquisitive child as then, I asked her she said her husband will be taking her to a very far place where they will live together. So she will miss her so much.

  140. Thnks Nneka Nnakwu Nwachukwu, you got it 100% correct. When one is jealous, she won’t show it and won’t cry…you can only notice by their face and actions. I really cried on my best friend’s wedding, I dressed her up during her day, gave her the best make over, excited she was getting married, but did not know when I broke into tears before our coursemates and crowd because am going to miss her. Today we are happily married with kids and share our joy and pains. Odochi Adaugo Etunwoke Alakwe.

  148. It happened to me on ma wedding day my friend cried uncontroablly becose we where so close and she felt we wnt be seeing as often and so many oda tins we both cried but later we she got her self back. And now we are fine and she understands dat am now married we can’t be seeing like before and i don’t also go out with her like before. So to me I dnt see it as jealousy.

  150. The man might have approached the Lady in question before, Only God knows what could have happen maybe due to the boy financial inbalance the lady might turns him down or the lady is too proud and selective but later realised she has missed a gold for stone.

  151. The man might have approached the Lady in question before, Only God knows what could have happen maybe due to the boy financial inbalance the lady might turns him down or the lady is too proud and selective but later realised she has missed a gold for stone…A lesson to every lady

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