A lady has taken to Twitter to narrate how she lost her baby after her boyfriend fed her abortion pills for months.
In a lengthy writeup she shared on the micro-blogging platform, the heartbroken lady identified as @aba_aggrey, relayed how her boyfriend, now ex, inserted abortion pills in her vagina during sex and swapped her pre-natal pills with abortion pills.
She said she went into labour prematurely and lost the baby at childbirth. However, she noted that she can’t disclose the name and identity of her ex-boyfriend, who is of Pakistani descent, for legal reasons.
Read as she wrote below,
“I want to tell whomever will listen about what my ex did to me and our child throughout my pregnancy. This family that we were creating was one he stressed he wanted so bad after his initial reservations. I had given this man so many chances to leave and constantly asked him to do so if that was what he chose and he never did forcing my child and I to suffer the consequences.
There may be many triggers in this thread so please prepare yourself for what you will read. I ask that you please share my story because the man that has done this to me has not been arrested and will prey on others at his leisure. He has taken no responsibility for his actions.
To start off, my boyfriend at the time inserted two abortion pills in my vagina under the disguise of oral and digital sex the morning of February 20th, 2022 when I was 17 weeks pregnant. At the time he inserted the pills I was unaware as he covered my stomach completely with my comforter and made sure it was extremely dark in my room. He asked if he could blind fold me “to spice up the sex” but I said no because I was uninterested.
I immediately began to experience what I later found out was side effects of the drug misoprostol. A pill that doctors give to women under supervision to assist in abortion or labor.
As he lay next to me in bed after he had inserted the pills, I began to have chills, then extremely terrible cramps, that then led to diarrhea and later the leaking of my water. I had assumed at the time (before my water began to leak) that I was experiencing food poisoning.
The night before, he had taken me to a Korean steak house for dinner. I assumed that the meat I made for us did not agree with me. I called my on call OBGYNs constantly that day (specifically before I began to experience leaking) and they had agreed that it very well could have been food poisoning.
As this man lay next to me he watched me experience what was later confirmed by my doctors to be contractions. He knew exactly what he had done and why I was experiencing what I was experiencing and watched me sit in pain and confusion.
He told me then that we should try to get rest. As my fever began to spike he went to sleep or pretended to. I took Tylenol as instructed by my doctor and was able to finally get some rest.
I had a few tiny leaks a few hours prior but was told by my OBGYN it could be natural from diarrhea pushing my body to push discharge out. I was worried so I rushed to the bathroom and wiped.
After looking at the tissue I saw one hexagonal pill. I was unsure of what was happening so I wiped again and on that napkin there was another pill. I kept wiping but found nothing else.
My sister came into my bathroom, looked and asked me what it was. At the time, I was in so much shock I couldn’t fathom the reality of what I was seeing.
I immediately asked for her phone and searched for images of abortion pills that could be inserted vaginally and saw that they were the exact same shape as the two that came out of me.
At that time I had never felt such pain and shock in my life. I knew in that moment he had put those pills in my body that morning under the disguise of sex. I called my OBGYN once again and disclosed what I had found. She told me to immediately come into Labor & Delivery.
As I was rushed to hospital I couldn’t cry or focus on the reality of the betrayal and pain I felt. I did everything I could to calm myself so my baby wouldn’t feel my distress. I couldn’t come to terms with actually losing what I had wanted so bad. I prayed.
We arrived at the hospital with the two pills I had found concealed in a ziploc bag for the doctors to look at. My doctor did a speculum test on me to confirm whether or not the gushes of water were in fact amniotic fluid.
She immediately confirmed it was and that because of this the prognosis of my pregnancy was not good at all because of how early on I was. I was asked whether or not I wanted to terminate my pregnancy because I was still ruptured and was told this could easily cause infection to me and the baby leading to sepsis. I had decided not to. My leaking seemed to subside. I wanted to hold on to what seemed to be a miracle.
With all the information I was given I was numb but I was also afraid for my life. That he’d come and find me. After being so patient, charming, and calculated I could not put anything past him. The man that had done this to me acted as if he were the perfect partner.
He always made sure I was eating, helped me put my shoes on as my belly began to get bigger, always gave me the tiniest and most endearing kisses.
Spoke of looking for a ring for me to propose before my due date, buying a town home, told me he loved our daughter more than life itself, got closer to my sister, my best friend, my best friends boyfriend, sat down with my parents in regards to his “plan for us”, told me he couldn’t wait for our little family all the while plotting to kill what was already a formed tiny human baby inside of me.
As crazy as this story is, it gets even worse. One day in December I had searched through one of my prenatal bottles to check to see how many more I had left before I had to reup. I had noticed a smaller, hexagonal shaped pill that did not look like the others.
My child’s father poisoned me and her for months in hopes of her death all while acting like the ideal boyfriend. Switched out my prenatals, physically inserted abortion pills in my body and from what I believe drugged my food as well.
We dated for a year and 4 months before the physical assault in February. Prior to that, we went to elementary, middle, and high school together.
On April 9th at 24 weeks my water completely broke. Tests my doctors ran continued to come back negative for amniotic fluid. We assumed my baby was pushing on my bladder and I was sent home. 2 days later I was admitted after very heavy bleeding.
On April 21st, 2022 my daughter was born. This same day her death certificate was signed. After her birth I was told because of the constant interference she didn’t stand a chance at a prosperous or healthy life.
Too much of her brain was compromised from all of the abortion pills I was fed throughout my pregnancy. Till this day I have no idea how many he’s given me.
I feel a way I cannot put into words.
I was in labor for 17 hours. I held her for as long as I could. Spoke to her and told her just how much I loved her. I pray I can be with her again one day. What she faced and endured within me was not fair and I wish I could’ve protected her somehow.
I pray that somehow someway some justice will be served to that man. That he will one day suffer the way I am in agony now.
Again, I legally cannot confirm his name as my legal team has strongly advised against it.”
I want to tell whomever will listen about what my ex did to me and our child throughout my pregnancy. This family that we were creating was one he stressed he wanted so bad after his initial reservations. I had given this man so many chances to leave and constantly asked him to
— Aba (@aba_aggrey) April 24, 2022
