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“I am upset and do not know what to do; I feel like my world is starting to crumble. I got married three years ago and things were going on smoothly until three months ago. My husband is an expatriate who is hardly in the country.

We find ways to connect with each other despite our busy lives. The last time my husband came home, I noticed a change in him. He was excited for some unknown reasons; he had a weird way of responding to my presence in the room. I found all these things strange even though i decided to let things slide since we did not have any argument.

I altered the pattern of visit three months ago because of the economy; we felt it was better for him to come visit since we were handling some projects. I was practically horny and could not wait for him to settle down properly before I started touching him. He threw me off and said he was tired. I knew I was being selfish considering the hours he spent in the plane.

When we finally had time for ourselves, something strange happened. He was disconnected most of the time and i had to talk to bring him back to my body. When he released, he moaned a name in my ears repeatedly.

It took me a while before I got to know it was my mother’s name he was calling. Why in God’s name will my husband call out my mother’s name when we are making love? I had a special pet name for her so it could not have been someone’s name.

I did not have the courage to ask him about it; it must have been my ears picking the wrong sound. But the same thing happened when we made love the next day. He closed his eyes as he called her name. I got worried at this point and reacted; he added my name to it and made it look like he was praising me.

Coincidentally, my mother visited us some days after and I watched both of them closely. He had always been free with her but every movement had meaning to me.

She kept referring to the last time she travelled out of the country; I had sent some things to him and he had sent her back to me. But only God knows what happened while they were alone.

I caught my husband looking funnily at my mum. I am afraid to confront him because I cannot bring myself to ask him what happened between him and her.

I am a Yoruba lady and the thought of my mother and my husband being together is driving me crazy. As much as I do not want people to know about this, it is serious. My husband calls my mother’s name during love making. Please what do I do?”

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  15. Hmm this matter hard oo no be small thing anyways before u jump into conclusion watch them well nd see if there’s any Intimacy between them and pls handle wit care so tht won’t affect ur marriage

  21. Have u talked it over with him?whatever u dnt like,talk to him,find out why he calls her name…his response will tell u what to do.if he claims there is nothing,that he just feels like it,then chill and observe the relationship!u need to investigate,find the truth before u decide.but keep ur marriage.

  23. But come to think of it must u tell the public abt ur marriage wen the creator of that marriage is big n better than social Media? Pls call upon ur God to correct every error.

  29. Chive Ifeoluwa heaven hlp does who hlp dem selves I dnt think u expect her to site en fold her arms for GOD to hlp her afteral we dnt even kw d person in question,public opinion is wat she feels she needs

  36. Your Husband is tired of your Disgusting and Irritating appearance ………….characters and your wickedness upon his life.
    All he need now is divorce thats why he is calling your mother’s name to get u angry so that he can file divorce on you.
    He want to become a gay not a slave any longer.
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  41. Lol! Your husband is only showin appreciation 2 your mom 4 given birth 2 a woman like u by callin her name. Ur uku 2 sweet he has no option than 2 praise the one that gave birth 2 u.

  47. Simple mathematics, while on it next time start calling his close friends name or his brother name self, shout it like u mean it and put some sweet things, u will see his reaction.

  49. Cyg Cyg Nansak Christian u nid hlp if u hvent noticed u go by every possible forum to seek attention…gay right activist,r we president mb or Nigerian lawmakers…mstchewwww

  64. My girl once did to me when I was banging her so hard later she said she dint no she said something like that. Den I monitor her and saw the monkey who was given her banana

  77. Is your father alive, if he is or not, your husband, am not concluding, he has secret which I suggest should be… Ogba Nne…. Na.. Ogba.. Nwa… Which means, to bite mama and bite pikin secret.

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  85. If his papa is an old man, it won’t make sense. Call the name of his male best friend or his younger brother. Not only during sex, also pretend you r asleep and act season one of love in d spirit realm. Wriggling your hip, opening your legs, muttering some romantic words and mentioning his best friend’s name

  87. You can also call out that name when you ppl are bathing requesting him to scrub your back. In fact change his name to that name and always apologise for calling him such. When episode one ends, let me knw so that I can send episode two for u. Him dey mad?

  92. My dear lets call a spade a spade and not a farm implement. Your Husband may be having an affair with her or one of her mistresses may be bearing that same name. watcb them secretly but try and ask your husband to know his reaction and also ask your mum wisely.

  95. Believe me honestly many comments here are rubbish, wut dis lady need is ur advice on what to do, rather u re just suggesting the owner of d name he mentioned, y no ask her d name it maybe urs

  98. That picture over there is a comedy.very hilarious. The comedy is all about a lady that stronger than the in bed.to the extent that the guy started crying for help ,begging for water to drink. He drank up to 4bottles of eva water in the name of being exhausted

  104. Cos you and your mother have a lot in common when he use the two of you, don’t be surprised cos ur mom is also having the same problem as you are when he is banging her, he is also calling your name instead of your mother’s name

  109. That is an amazing expression of what your Uku is doing to him ask flavour and chidimma they will explain better. Maybe u should change your own name to ur mom own and let see if He will still Call the name OK.

  112. When ur husband got married to u he’s supposed to be calling ur mother either mama or mum not her name.except u married a man older than ur mother,if not so he’s calling his girlfriends name,don’t just accuse ur mother or husband for nothing sake.

  116. Think of it, is it only ur mother dat bear d name or when he called d name, did he add mother in-inlaw ?, are u sure is not his girl friend name, unless u know dat something is going on between him and ur mother, if not, flush dat dirty thinking out of ur mind.

  128. I m not married, but I ll tell u to save ur marriage, if truly ur mom s having an affair with ur husband go to ur room nd close door pray to ur father heaven to fight for u let their be a great separation between D both of them nd Wen it s Don Pls try to let go of d past also talk to ur pastor to help u in prayers I believe that God will see through ijn

  131. My sister! There’s nothing I can tell you more than to face your creator, lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth, to give you knowledge about this, not men can tell but only God knows the reason why. Nothing hide from Jesus Christ, that’s only solution, and plz keep your married

  137. Am just reading comments Cos this case pass me. Am still single i don’t know how to handle it for now. But are you sure is really your mum, dont you think it’s a coincidence?.maybe some one very close to him apart from your mum. Make your self FBI and watch him closely.

  154. You need to be more conscious,careful and vigilant at this moment in time,before you ask or make any fact findings think twice for the consequences……In a nutshell have a solemn dialogue with your husband…..his response and action will pave the way for your next action ok……I wish you the best in your marriage….

  157. Don’t blame him is the present recession he was remembering the good times he had when he had enough money to throw around and all the girls he was flexing with so he mistakenly called one of the girls name lol just kidding…the truth is your husband sex life is in recession He’s tired of everything calling your mothers name was just a way an excuse to free himself and turn you off…to be honest his feelings for you is slowly fading.

  182. Sweet heart, if you have the means try and take your mum and husband out for lunch and contract a security company to fix a security camera at home. Fake it , by telling them you are travelling or going somewhere urgent. Whatever is going on between will be captured for all to see. If what you think is what is captured make more than a copy. Make everyone happy at home, then put the CD in and watch their action and response . And advice yourself. Wish you well .

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  190. I wanted 2 show concern,but after finding out is the case of yoruba women, I careless..other people sleep outside marriage,but it’s the hubby of yoruba women,they don’t even care if the person is less younger…I lost count of how many have made such passes at me…SMH 4 dem….no offence though is just truth been said

  195. hahaha maybe ur mom sweet pass u she s more stronger on bed when he test it.Now u go n test his fada n cal his name at the nest time of s….X n see the reaction.Pls tel us what happen if u do

  197. observe them closely in silence with a smile on your face. And then ask him about it some days later…make sure you handle it maturedly so it wont affect your marriage. Tell your mum about it indirectly as if is happening to your very close friend and see her reactions and advice. But remember, put a smile on you face while acting. Guys can be smart

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