A married woman is struggling to maintain her marriage in regards to her husband’s high appetite for sex.

The woman claims her husband asks for sex daily, and gets insulted if she fails to give in.

“I have been married for several years now. However, I have some problems for which I need advice. My husband wants and demands for sex every day.”

The husband has even threatened her with divorce if she fails to fulfil his sexual demands.

“Whenever I say no or I cannot for one reason or the other, he hurls all manner of insults to me and threatens to end our marriage.”

He has even become suspicious of her, demanding to know her every move, probably thinking she is cheating since she isn’t giving into his demands

“Of late he demanded my Facebook password and is now managing my account. He also started demanding that I come home straight at the end of our church service”I don’t know what has gotten into him. I am not sure if this is true love or something else and I don’t know what else I can do to please him.”

What would you do if you were in this situation?

399 COMMENTS

  1. let giv thanks to the lord u marry a active hubby be patience befause u stiill fine for him face just try and call him befire fe hav sed with and hav a word to his hear has husband and wife dont be fed up

  2. It not rite my people, every day sex ABA say weytin happened na food, even food dey tire person talkless of everyday sex. My dear if na to dey put sleeping tablet for him food do am or if u have beta alternative to avoid do it, it take 14days to recover a drop of a sperm not to talk of everyday blow job……it rubbish

  3. Don’t u know that as u are claiming some right from so he has some right to claim from u and the main right he has is what is requesting for so, ur began as no choice than to accept unless u want to scatter ur marriage by urself

  4. Another woman na will shout please help me my husband doesn’t last longer in bed pls advice me what should I do u pple shud go n relax n leave dis Facebook alone no b facebook force una mek una go gt marry o abeg

  5. Madam, I’m not a home breaker. Obviously, you are not enjoying the everyday sex and that’s why you voice out. Too much of everything is bad. If you are tired of the “everyday sex” pls leave. I’m sure the muscle of your pussy will still be hurting till now. Pls don’t get mad at me. Just my own opinion

    • You guys should think. This woman is not enjoying the everyday SEX and that’s why she cried out. Do you want her to share herself just becos is her job as you said ? Besides, what is even the joy of a marriage if not children. Be sincere to yourself and allow a man to have sex with you everyday for just 1month if you won’t react. Talk more of 1yr. Did you even care to think the mood or manner in which the husband do have sex with this woman? Or have you forgotten some men are ?, ?, animals in bed. Women, think! Before blaming her. Most men are lions. And don’t forget there is difference between “Sex and Love making ” for those of you who shouts harder! Remember some women are not like you ooh. Cheers ?

  6. Yes it is normal, you dont kno the important of sex in our life. The advantages is more than the disadvantages, at list u should be thankful 2 God for an active husband. Make sure u always give him enough sex or he wil end up getin a girl outside that can fill the blank spaces.

  7. all of una comments here dey make me laugh. If na man dey complain about him woman wey dey ask for sex every day from hubby: una don call that wifey a nympho. Una go remind de man, say men dey die for bed matter butuu now na woman complain, una no won talk true. Choi!!!! Uwa liee…

  8. don’t u date him before getting married to him? Anyways sister just discuss with him in a mannered way he is a human and will understand… And pls dont publicise such question again..ask ur mentor… Think..

  9. Its you who is nt normal, you are saying he is everyday demanding for sex, meaning to say, he is only demanding and you are denying him everyday, if i was in your shoes, i would jus go to my husband and tel him to fuck me more 5 times a day and i dont think he can stil torture u with his sexual desires everday

  10. Let’s even reason it emotionally,wat eve the man traveled for any reason,wat will happen to the woman in question….. because he has already trained her with everyday sex my dear sincerely speaking she will look for where to get the satisfaction she needs

  11. Woman it is very normal if he demands 4 sex everyday so juz giv it out,dat contract u sign dat day on ur weddin day has nt get to expire,dis goes to all women marriage nw our days is all abt sex if u r nt ready for sex dnt go near marriage coz its nw a contract.

  12. Itz part of marriage,so enjoy it while it last.
    To d single ladies saying stuff like:no be food, too much of everything is bad blah blah blah…. I reserve my comment for una…. But let me just tell u this “He may not see it as food while courting and becomes his favorite dish wen u married”
    In a case like dat u must take it as a food also, he could be doing so to prevent himself from cheating,there are still faithful husbands when u get one do all to satisfy him.

  13. U are sweet and your husband love you like that, so you should be happy. Let me tell you one secret, don’t ever allow your husband to run from your sex and food because immediately he do there would be no love for you again. No man on earth will love to sex you always without loving u so much. That’s the Fact!

  14. This is nonsense if I happened to be ur husband and saw u post this I will punish u for that .is ur family u are talking about he deserve some respect from u.don’t give him he get it elsewhere

  15. Yes pls queen tell her she doesn’t know how lucky she is. U r getting kerewa everyday ask other women they have to beg d husband and after all the kajollin she only gets two minutes of him doing his nonsense. Don’t be stupid please keep quiet and allow him am sure u r enjoying it deep down

  16. Is not normal, you need time for your spiritual life irrespective that you are married.alao considering the health effects is not good both for you and for him.have we asked ourselves question why women live longer than men?

  17. For me I will advise you to invite one of your good friend who still single so that she can assist you on that your will fuck you today and tomorrow will be your friend turn in order for you to get strength

  18. You still get mouth to talk. Better maintain your self before correct babes go collect the guy from you. My dear,what is written is written u must be submissive to ur hubby in any way. He paid for it. He is not stealing from u. Maintain oooooooo. Before you begin dey call pastor that another woman is sleeping with ur hubby. Give him what he wants. OK!

  19. I don’t blif everyday is it dat dey r no days u see ur red flag or even wen u see it he still sex u dat is 2 say wen ur on dey r 2 tinx involved he either still do it or he goes out 2 get it 4 dat few days. And if u get pregnant or ur pregnant and it has goten 2 dat stage u 2 can no longer do it dat is 2 say he gets it else where. Pls pple shld tink b4 answering question she’s not a machine or a sex toy neither is she ur sex slave she’s ur wife 4 crying out loud. Its not only 4 sex pole get married ur married 2 her 2 b ur friend, companion, mother of ur children, ur soulmate. And 2 look after u and ur children not 4 her 2 cum give u everyday sex. If dats d case dat means u got married 2 her so she could be ur sex machine not 4 her 2 b ur wife……..

  20. Give it 2 him cos he is d one Dat own ur body til die to u a part or untill u wnt him to start looking out b4 , can wake up,it ur wrk nd u must do it 4 him anytime anywhere and as much that he wnt it or need it

  21. If a person likes fried rice,give it to him every day, I tell U he will lost appetite for it.give it to him every day n ask for it b4 he even does. Send him text messages while at office DAT U r deadly feeling like doing it,den he will know he is in for it……he cannot bt mellow.

  22. pray for more strength to perform and endure with happiness, ask God to give your husband a spirit of self control and a heart of understanding your feelings… (Don’t give up on him )

  23. Everyday? N u are complaining. Thought u were into something serious like more than 7times a day. Lol. Abeg, u no get talk. If he is not performing now u won’t even tell us before u start cheating on him. He doesn’t want to cheat on u. Get that into ur thin skull n do ur job well. Women we too get wahala. Lmao!!!!!

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  25. Any man that say that having sex every day is good then he is not normal my dear they is time for everything even if you have sex every day it does not change anything or stop him from misbehaving if he wants to just do the right thing talk to him and know why he wants sex every day you guys can work it out as couples

  26. He paid for it o,so dnt deny him his right o or else those girls outside dia dat need his type will help u,but mind u he will never notice u again if dat happens,crying and complaining will follow

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  28. There is nothing u can do dan to manage him only think u ill is ask God to help u he is ur husband if u refuse him dat a means of send him to outside and d moment he meet a women who is like him ur mane is sorry.

  29. Give twenty times if he needs it,,in time u will get use to it……my dear u should be happy he’s demanding from u…….its normal that means he is sexually attracted to you.

  30. Its just addiction not love. What of her health. For God sake, she is not a machine. Especially if she a working class type. After a hectic day, cooking and all that, then sex daily. Its just not right.

  31. If your husband is having a good job, resign you own and start business that will give you time for your husband. Then give an appreciable time and attention to that bed. It’s very important my sister. Don’t show him direct route to the path of the professional home breakers. God bless you, and keep your home, even as you start cooperating from this night. Amen

  32. My sister i think demanding for sex from your husband make him trust worthy in your sight, bcos if he didn’t ask for sex the next thing you will be the one to complain of infidelity

  33. Wait a minute !
    Sex lasts for approximately 5-10 minutes for men that have enough kinetic Energy ,does it mean you can’t sacrifice that little time for your husband ? I suggest that Banana, Groundnuts and plantains should your vadamecum so you can have strength for him .
    The crux of the situation is that your husband was a Virgin before he married you .He would get tired of it j in the long run ust keep on satisfying him for the time being

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