A young man identified as Folorunsho took to the micro-blogging platform to share the heartbreaking event that occurred between him and someone he assumed was his close friend.
According to Folorunsho, he was planning to turn up big for his friend’s wedding and was ready to go all out until he found out she hosted a pre-wedding dinner with her close friends and he was not invited.
Mutual friends of both parties wondered why he was not at the event, reached out to find out why and were all shocked to find out he was not invited.
In his words;
“I didn’t want to talk about this, but people are stressing me. A friend is getting married in December, and I was already making plans to turn up and spend a lot. Talmabout close friend. Lol. Some days ago, she had a private dinner for close friends.
I wasn’t invited. I didn’t even know. Someone in our close friends circle buzzed to ask where I was and I said ‘I’m home’. I’d refer to her as Mrs. A. ‘Didn’t Xyz invite you for her dinner?’ No. That’s strange… bla bla. Funny thing is, I wasn’t bothered.
Next day, Mrs. A’s husband reached out to ask why I wasn’t at Xyz’s dinner. I told him I wasn’t invited. He didn’t believe. Man suggested I reach out and ask why. To avoid plenty talk, I agreed to reach out. In reality, I wouldn’t. By evening, on my way from work, another mutual reached out. Call her Mrs. B.
She’s not in Abuja with us so when she asked why I wasn’t there, I lied. I said I took the pictures and recorded videos. Mrs. B told me that’s not true. She said Mrs. A would have posted pictures of us together with the Bride to be since she knows how close we are. So I told her I wasn’t invited.
Afterwards, we was on a long call and she was telling me to reach out. As they tried to convince me to reach out, resentment staryed building up. Why? You’re asking me to reach out to someone who deliberately left me out of her list? I mean, we have a WhatsApp group; Myself, Xyz and Mrs. A. I post on the group from time to time.
From videos I saw, there were over 30 people present. Obviously, she didn’t forget. She really didn’t invite me and that’s actually fine. I mean, I have family members who love me genuinely, why should a stranger leaving me out of her plans bother me? The issue I have now is people asking me to reach out and even attend the wedding.
Lol. To prove a point? I’m not going anywhere fam. I’m not desperate to prove anything at rhis point. This person doesn’t even feed me.”