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A Hluhluwe man has said he will not be able to forgive the three (the third one held the camera) women who raped him.

A video of the incident appeared on social media and has since gone viral.

The man, whose name is known to the Daily News, said he was at home when a woman whom he knows called him over, saying she needed help with an electrical problem at her home.

“I went into her house and when I got there, I saw another girl in the room. I did not pay any attention to her. Then another girl who was hiding behind the door closed it, that’s when I realised that something was wrong.”

He said after they closed the door behind him, they told him they wanted to sleep with him.

“I initially thought they were joking,” he said.

However, he soon realised they were serious when he was attacked. He said he tried to defend himself but his arm was weak since he had injured it in an accident years ago.

He said he was let go and he went home and took a shower. He said the incident had left him feeling confused.

“I told my older sister about what happened but she thought I was joking.”

It was only after a video appeared online that she took what he said seriously and encouraged him to go to the police. He said he feared going to the police because he thought they would not take him seriously.

“When I told them what happened they were shocked. The three women were arrested the same day I reported the matter.”

The alleged rapists were people he knew and grew up with in the area, he said.

“I’m very angry,” he said of the assault. One of the families of the alleged rapists went to the man’s home to try to make amends, he said.

“My brothers and sisters were not having any of it,” he said.

He was looking forward to the trial and wanted the women to be severely punished. “People like that should not be part of society.”

What made it more difficult to move on was that the video was on social media and people had come to ask him what happened.

“It is something I never thought would happen to me. There is not much I can do but try to move on.”

According to Reese Mann, executive director of the South African Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Samssa), one out of six males before the age of 18 were sexually abused.

Mann said 19.3% of all sexual violations reported to police involved male victims.

“Male victims of sexual abuse are less likely than their female counterparts to report incidents of sexual abuse, because police and the judiciary don’t take it seriously,” Mann said.

Mann said a widely held myth was that if males got an erection and/or, ejaculated during the sexual abuse, they must have enjoyed it.

“A man being raped can still get an erection because it is in the physiological make-up of males that if they are caressed long enough they end up getting an erection,” said Mann.

He said there was also the myth that men should be capable of protecting themselves against sexual abuse.

“There are three stages that any victim of sexual abuse goes through, and they are called the three Fs.

“They can fight back, they can flee or they are just overcome by fear and the force exerted by the perpetrator, in which case they just freeze,” said Mann.

Police spokesman, Lieutenant-Colonel Thulani Zwane, confirmed the incident and said the women had appeared in the Hluhluwe Magistrate’s Court last Thursday and were expected to appear again on Tuesday for a bail application.

He said they were being held in custody.

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178 COMMENTS

  7. This is the psychological trauma men suffer when they get raped. they can’t come out to complain because nobody would believe them. Truth is – men get raped , just like women and they deserve justice too – just like women

  28. Hahahahahahahahah Wu dey rape Wu? Hahahahahahahahah still laughing cum if na man rape woman now we go dey insult dem now is d opposite we dey make mouth k wen dem bring another news say man rape woman mi no wan hear ish oooo or else we go fight!!!!

  39. Get out idiot. U should be happy dat dey are rapping u. When people like us dey find who go just spend 5mins wit us. Do u want to tell me dat u couldnt push those girls and get out of dere ? Bcos dey where Unharmed. Idiot no let me vex 4u.

  58. I don’t blame people they say that its not possible to rape a guy,some say if he gets an erection(then he is enjoying it),pls that’s arrant stupidity,then how do u know when a lady get an arousal(u cant see anything)___people think its anytime a man sees sex that he will jump right in___Pls,there are other things men are chasing apart from sex,its not everytime a man is in the mood___I’ve only seen male rape mostly on little boys(particularly houseboys btw 8-12),whom their madam use as sex slaves but they can’t tell anyone until u find out

  59. Wow Please am so much intrested in that rape I want to experience and see the nature of it how it looks like and how it can be, for a man to be gang bang by 3 powerful ladies, mehn, please my dear naija girls u people should emulate from these SA girls after all we are the giant of Africa, U people can do better than them Please we the ASSOCIATION OF NAIJA GUY’S (ANG) are begging una we need u people molest us with rape atlist 5 is to 1 girls please oooo…

  61. Two ladies tried to rape me few months ago, they succeeded but met a burning fire like me with 275hp strenght and went home with minor injuries. The funny part of it is they don’t pick my calls anymore.

  63. Lol I watched the video,and I don’t know how’s that a rape!He lay down and wasn’t making much effort to run.When then lady hand job his dick and inserted it in the other lady’s pussy,he moaned!And he wasn’t shouting..de guy just enjoyed it and say na rape at the end..hehehe

  74. lol..hw 3 girls go rape one bad.were him power go…e no even make attempt to push dem sef…d man don enjoy d fucking fuck finish ..cum here dey deceive pipo say na rape…oga e no swt u ..goat…mtcheeeew..!

  79. Dis guy again, in fact 10 girls can’t overpower me talk less of raping me, d guy is just forming,he enjoyed it cos he wasn’t struggling with dem, I caneva bliv any man who claims he was raped by ghels

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