The BBC has reported a reverberating interview given by the first lady, Aisha Buhari. The first lady was brutally honest, unequivocal and stunningly objective about her husband’s administration and the need for Buhari to focus on his legacy.
Aisha Buhari stated that: “Many people have been coming to tell him that things are not going the way they should. That when it comes to putting people in certain positions, most of these people that are occupying some agencies number (1) nobody knows them; number (2) they don’t know our party manifesto; they don’t know what we campaigned for…They don’t have a mission. They don’t have a vision.”
These are remarkably strong words from unusual quarters. Our patriarchal system dictates that a woman must support her husband even when he is heading to the abyss. Therefore, a woman’s opinions, if she is given the space to have any, can only be articulated in the private cocoons of the marital home. First ladies are expected to simply look beautiful, wear the latest fashions and take up a non-controversial cause. Therefore, Aisha’s comments must be a huge but refreshing shock.
Aisha Buhari’s admonition is the definition of home-truth. It says a lot about the first family, and the Buhari administration. The first lady has done Nigeria a huge service by making it clear that things are not going well in the Buhari government. There are those who argue that Aisha is displeased with her husband’s appointments because she could not get “her own people” into the administration. I have no evidence at my disposal to confirm or refute that. However, those who think that Aisha is wrong to publicly criticize her husband should kindly ask themselves a few questions: How long have you known Buhari? What was your level of involvement in his campaign during the four presidential elections he contested? Do you know what it feels like to be married to Buhari for 27 years? Do you love Buhari more than his wife?
I can understand why the current governing elite may defend the administration’s appointments and performance. However, anyone who means well for Buhari and genuinely wants him to succeed must concede that he has elevated cronyism and nepotism to a whole new level in Nigeria. He continues to risk our country’s fragile unity by his lopsided appointments, non-systematic approach to governance and the lack of thoughtful, coherent, and sophisticated vision for our country. Aisha Buhari has just confirmed that those of us who are critical of President Buhari are not his enemies. We criticize him precisely because we mean well for him and our country.
Aisha Buhari recognizes that the Buhari family name is at stake. The president can write the Buhari name in immortality or simply have the name scorned for generations to come. The state of affairs in Nigeria at the moment is the worst that I have seen in my lifetime. The president’s arguably mediocre cabinet has been further undermined by a tiny clique at the presidency. This clique almost exclusively speaks Fulfulde. That in and of itself is not a problem. The problem is that the clique or “kitchen cabinet” is not made up of the best brains among the Fulfulde-speaking people of Nigeria. Consequently, the president is not drawing on the best brains in Nigeria. He is fighting with one hand tied to his back. This partly explains the routine and elementary blunders that have plagued his administration.
Aisha Buhari has kept a relatively low profile when juxtaposed with the last two first ladies. Many would recall the rather overbearing attitude of Patience Jonathan and the quest of Turai Yar’Adua to cling to power as her husband neared an unfortunate end. Aisha indicated in the interview that the president was aware of her concerns. The first lady stated that “if things continue like this up to 2019, I will not go out and campaign again and ask any woman to vote like I did before. I will never do it again.” I have argued in the last several months that President Buhari should concentrate on his current term and abandon any thoughts about running for a second term. It is worth reiterating that Buhari cannot win a second term in a free and fair atmosphere. I know that he now holds the levers of power and has engaged in favouritist purges that could help him hang on to power. However, unless he performs an economic miracle akin to the Wirtschaftswunder, or the German economic miracle, he stands to ruin what is left of his reputation.
The first lady’s candid assessment of her husband’s administration sends the right signals to the Nigerian society, particularly young girls and women. It redefines the supranational contours of the roles of a first lady. It also demonstrates that at least one person at the presidency has not lost touch with reality. The masses have a voice in Aso Rock who believes the president must focus on leaving a solid legacy.
Finally, I would like to congratulate President Mohammadu Buhari for the choice he made 27 years or so ago. You married a woman who is not content with merely enjoying the privileges of power. The interview granted by Aisha Buhari demonstrates that she expects that your years of running for office must not go to waste. Your government must fulfill its promise to the Nigerian people. I hope that it also means that the first couple has got a healthy, and mutually respectful relationship. We now have a contender for “Person of the Year”. Thank you, Aisha Buhari.
– ‘Tope Oriola is professor of criminology at the University of Alberta, Canada. Twitter: @topeoriola
after all ds bla bla from aisha,will price of rice fall??make she go siddon jeje
lokin gorgeous
Thank u… Maka Y ??
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Let her go and wait in the other room until buhari returns from West Germany…
My self sey the same thank you ayisha
Beautiful woman
BBC want Buhari to divorce Aisha Abi…….
Seriously when this news first came in I was like nah… She don’t have the…well I’d wanted to say balls but she don’t literally have that so i said guts.
Well, he likes it or not, that’s the only person right now that can tell him the truth, the only truth and nothing but the truth. And for her to go against their strict culture and religion to talk about her husband’s mistake in public simply means she couldn’t live with her conscience no more. She got good spirit and she knows how to listen to her spirit. By complaining publicly means the stubborn man had refused to listen to his closest chancellor in private. And she REALLY REALLY had to convey the message her spirit kept sending her to the desired destination.
I’m only amaze that instead of Mr president to take heed, he rather decided to disrespect his wife the way he did in public by saying she belongs to his kitchen, living room and other room.
One day he will live to regret that if he don’t make amends now.
Well said
Ur cment wins d award
lol guys I just saw a News where buhari responds to Aisha saying my Wife belongs to the kitchen
let him divoirc her, the woman is more than him,buhari is nothing before her,thanks for speaking the true.
You did not loose any thing madam Aisha , I will be they for you OK. Just stand on truth you will see no harm will befall you in Yahwehs name isssseeeeeee.
You don’t know about that
Madam faith Ayodele , maa please with due respect am not they . but blessed are those who did not see and believe , they shall see the kingdom of Almighty Yahweh.
Change begins with Aisha!!!!!!
Hmmmm I’m speech less
The Government or the presidency should not be hijacked…. not by a cabal nor by a first lady…… the presidency is not personal property.
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The president was elected, not the first lady…. let’s not get things mixed up. If we had been getting them mixed up in the past, I guess it is about time to break away from the past….. Yorubas say “Orisha b’ole gbe mi, se mi bi o se ba mi” …”deity if you can’t improve my situation, please don’t make it any worse”
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The joint ticket is the President and his running mate and not the President and his domestic mate…… lest we forget.
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A rivalry or fight for dominance between a cabal and the first lady should not be elevated to a National problem
U are not making sense at all
Yes he is making sense
Real sense..slow thinkers might find it hard to get the drill
First…female…president
Pls,what did she really say? We no dey light for my area.
U are seriously unserious… Very funny
Bros I’m serious o,we no dey see light 2 watch tv o.
Lol…Same here but u must ve read d interview wit ur fone online here like I did.
Hmmm,i did.But i still want someone 2 do small aproko wit me bcs na aproko dey sweet pas.?
So,will u?
What a straitlaced lady. Pure undiluted truth from a loving and caring wife. God help we women and our children. When men brings in problems we Bear the Brunt’s
Unfortunately he responded by being sexist saying her place is in his kitchen
In a world where the majority are dishonest and lack integrity, this natural statement from Aisha Buhari will most definitely be shocking.
Dont mind her. She wants to be let lose like DPJ.
Prudence & accountability is the watch word of this administration
This just made my day.
Am still waiting 4 uncle Fayoshe’s comment on dis matter. Nigeria n dair drama
Thank you divine Little Angel & Adorable Princess First Lady Aisha Muhammad Buhari, Allah’s Mercies, Blessings & Protection Will InshaAllah Be With You & Your Children Always. You Have Successfully Used Just One Interview Session on BBC to Clear Up PMB’s Serious Presidential Political Predicament in The Eyes of Concerned Citizens, What The Presidential Handlers Couldn’t Achieve In One Year. AllahuAhkbar. Ameen
Madam first lady I really love and appreciate what you did, is only few women dat can come out boldly and do what you just did but I hope you know the implications of what you said.
For Aisha buhari to say dis, infact , she must hv gathered alot of info negatv to her husband,s govrnance
Did she really mean what she just said or are they trying to divert the attention of the masses ?
All I ve to say is Thank you Madam First Lady
if truly she said that, it means she has her country at heart, she should be voted as the first female president of these great country Nigeria…We need a passive and sincere leader… Aisha I will vote 4u, run for president come 2019
It’s a scam dear Trust APC!!!
I concur
*Smiles*
U guys should never trust this folks,
Am 40% sure dat all this drama is a well perfected plan.
Trying to get our attention off them because we accuse them of recession…
wat a beauty to b hold u ar indeed a first lady.. bt plz try ro talk to dat man to try an b more kind to pipl bfor we al perish… we luv u our first lady…
for what?
Beloved be care full of APC it’s a scam!!
They are good at scam
U guys should never trust this folks,
Am 40% sure dat all this drama is a well perfected plan.