Popular Nigerian Gay activist, Bisi Alimi has reflected on different phases in his life including when he only loved girls, and considered becoming a pastor.
According to Bisi, that phase of his life was ”confused, depressed and heartbroken. ”
He wrote on his Instagram page yesterday ;
“Now I am going through the Lucifer stage…it might last for eternity or not but one thing is clear. This lucifer stage is becoming my most self aware, self assured, self conscious of them all,” 
“And there are still many phases I can’t remember. But in all of this. something remain constant. My curiosity.
“As a very curious being, I have always opened myself up for growth, mistakes, adventures, learning, unlearning, love, fear, tears, success and failure,”
“I guess the full gist is, you are never fully grown until you are dead. Death is the end all of everything. So please, dont deny yourself the joy of curiosity.”
